i'm not dsm, but i do play on the same team. i would say the gay world is way more obsessed with body image on the whole, but probably more the built cut look, not super-huge. i have friends who think guys who are too big are 'gronky' and not attractive. i haven't seen an amount of muscle i'm not attracted to yet.
^^dude, what's "gronky" mean?
^^good question... and answer. urbandictionary.com has lots of definitions, none of which i've heard it used as really - someone who is too big and basically has hardly any mobility because they can't move properly. also, i've heard it used as a defamatory remark for someone who's fat and gross. Not appropriate for sexy muscle, IMO.
Ok, i get it, most women would not go for a monster shape bb unless their personalities override their threatening look. thanks!!!!!
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keep in mind too guys. I mean, flex wheeler is not remotely similar to markus ruhl. YOu can be big, but you have to be born with "something" that allows you to hold that muscle size and still be attractive to the females....
i heard somewhere 86% of USA women dont like BB. but yes BB is diff than a lifter..
i concur.....sometimes i want to ring their skinny little necks and tell them they don't deserve the girlfriend they have because they're such a pathetic male specimen.......it'll all come back eventually......survival of the fittest.....when WW3 happens we will rule again![]()
it depends
Ive noticed when Im tryin to put on size and im all ballooned and look like an ape, chix run the other way.
However, when I cut down to 10% or so and lean it down I seem to get more attention...
So it all depends. I don't think they like IFBB size bb'ers tho. No matter how lean or anything..
Wow. Lots of info- scary! Ok, some you guys are over thinking. True, most women don't care for the pin-head look. But what I find most attractive- and my man fits every category- is ripped, hard body, not overly freakish. Good looking face. Clean, well groomed, SHAVE (no body hair--ewww). Nice smile and teeth, overall good person. Tone down the cologne, just put enough on so when I get close to your neck only I can smell it. And like someone said-who really gives a crap. Just be confident that you look as good as it gets. That is a turn on too. But not overly arrogant, NOT in love with yourself. Good looking people attract other good looking people.
i'm gonna get as freakish as my namesake and love every minute of it......any girl dumb enough to pass me up didn't deserve me in the first place.
meh.......testosterone causes hair growth......I have lots of test and and I'm a goddamn sexual tyranisourus. j/k's
heheheh kind of
how about academic achievment? How about a big guy, who is ruggishly handsome, but has his moms good looks too. On top of this, he has a small bone structure and massive in the right places......Thats me
Where does academics fit in, I got that too, hmmmm? It goes good.
Personally, I LOVE the BB type, but most of the time it's the personality that they have that is the killer. You can't be with someone very long who is Sooo into themselves. It's a turnoff.
Its all was nice to see the ladies post.
If you dam guys could keep your shit under control i'm sure they would post more.
Yeah in my experience i've only ever met one gal that loved the big bb types. She was soo f#cken hot too. Seriously a 10/10 & she was totally obsessed with Arnie.
But the other 99 percent that i've talked to/dated/f#cked think it's "gross".
When i started working out all the gals i was seeing were all like "oh don't get too big like Arnie, that's a turn off"
haha right. Cos it's so easy to get Arnolds physique hahah
Are we talking about guys that look like Jay Cutler and Ronnie Coleman? I know in the WWE, guys like John Cena and Batista get LOADS of female attention and they aren't exactly small. They have the kinda build i'd strive for, but Coleman look....no thanks.
God bless, couldn't agree more......And just a slight rebutal on the female point of view (appreciate you chiming in by the way) Just make sure you aren't confusing someone who cares about there body and the way they look with someone who is narcissicistic and hung up on themselves. I've had girls break up with me before because they said I was to "into myself," then citing as there examples: I workout too much, i dont answer their calls when Im at the gym, and we can never go eat out/eat junk food because of your diet....This is my lifestyle and part of who I am, Im not "too into myslef," if anything Im too hard on myself. I care about the way I look and feel, and I always will and training and proper nutrition will ALWAYS be a huge part of my life, if a girl is not willing to TRULY accept this (Not just say she's ok with it) then she might as well just keep on walking.
Very true. My man and I share the same lifestyle so it makes it much easier to understand the dieting, workouts, etc. I do believe that also some women don't want their man being more in shape than they are so they "say" they don't like the BB type. Very insecure. And they probably don't enjoy all the attention they get either. Hell when we go out people stare at both of us and we crack up. But let me tell you, if he didn't look the way he does and I was getting all the attention he would be pissed, jealous whatever. It goes both ways. Coleman, Cutler- yes...too big...not enough movement I would imagine. But Cena type, very atttactive, appealing...I would certainly look twice at someone built like him...well not anymore cause I'm more than satisfied with what I've got! Oh, and as far as brains that is extremely important too. Don't open your mouth and sound like an idiot. Have something interesting to say. Goes for women too.
I agree that you have to meet someone who has the same desires for fitness as you do, because when most of your time is spent at the gym, if your other half is there the same amount of time you are, then I think you are able to appreciate each other that much more because you share the same goals for fitness. I absolutely LOVE muscular men, and by that I mean the ones that are about 200lbs, i think it's sexy but I've also met some that open their mouth and you wonder how they graduated from Jr. High School. So brains are important too.
200 and up
What people say and do are very different.
It like asking a guy if he likes chicks with big fake boobs.
he is going to say i dont like fake boobs but in real life would be attracted to them.
People here are forgetting extremes. Its like saying do you like skinny girls? Sure they will mostly say yes but do you want a girl so skinny shes anorexic. Or its saying do you like fat girls? but how fat are we talking about......
What woman wants some scrony short anorexic guy? But does she want ronnie coleman.?
No and the sexiest thing is always confidence. If you carry yourself well and suit it that is sexy. This argument is kind of stupid and flawed. There is always extremes to everything. Ya ronnie would be to big for most girls and so are pro body builders. It also depends on the person some guys are to strict.
You gotta find a good middle ground and not worry about what women think. Again she doesnt want a fat, skinny, obese or to big guy. So stop worrying and find a good look.
And again i doubt their are alot of guys here as big as pro body builders. These guys cycle abnormal amounts of AAS, eat abnormal amounts of food, and train harder/more/longer then us. So it isnt like your going to be ronnie coleman any time soon.
Of course women like muscular men what kind of question is that, how muscular is the question. It isnt a one word answer. Sure some guy who is so full of himself isnt good, It is perhaps the stero types women associate with "weight lifters."
The insecurty thing is the other half of it. Hot girls wont feel so good if they're guy is perfect but they dont want an ugly one either. Thats why i said you should all stop worrying, it is the extremes that kill it.
Some will say its the hottest girls and guys that have the biggest problems, often people are intimidated of them and lack the confidence to approach them.
its all the way you carry yourself, act, and look its a combo.
and like i said everyone as preferences but no body wants something that is to "extreme"
How hot do you like your food. Frozen or smoking? It isnt yes or no but everyone likes their good a certain temperature and it isnt to hot or to cold.
Some want it colder some a bit hotter. Some alot hotter some alot colder. But no one wants it frozen or on fire.
great reply Big10... I agree, I have dated a variety. I just happen to like "lickable" rock hard abs and enough power to toss me around a bit![]()
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