WHY do women always have to change things when they move in?

[KatsMeow]

Yep its my brothers GF.
My real problem with her is shes always stressed out, is an alcoholic in the making. (has a glass of wine everyday, then a bottle of whine Fri/Sat)

Shes very successful for her age, but I think she can't really handle the load, and the fact that her moms an alchy I just see things getting worse, and its really not that great right now.

The second thing that drives me crazy is shes a pathological ass kisser.
Some people are just nice, shes the type who goes out of her way and *TRIES* to be nice when it really benefits her.
She'll do it to me, my mom, my brothers friends, just to get in the circle.

And its the way she tries to be nice that makes people not even like her.
Because its so fake.
Shes goes from acting like a stepford wife to a screaming sociopath in the blink of an eye.
Its disturbing, and if she moves in its gonna be fighting till someone moves out, or till someone kills her.

Oh good lord, I hope your brother will wake up and run away, it's too bad that you are being put into that situation.
I personally know that 3 is a crowd especially when 2 of them are a couple. How long do you foresee these living arrangements lasting?

[Flagg]

A few years back I used to share a flat with one of my cousins. All was well till he met a new girlfriend. Then the girlfriend was practically living at ours 24/7. Eating all the ****ing food, using up all the hot water, me feeling like a right 3rd wheel every time I go into the front room and they're sucking each others faces. I ended up resenting her and getting pissed off at my cousin who was too ***** weak to have a word with her and her habits (especially eating the food that SHE didn't pay for, including my share).

A party of 3, where 2 of the 3 are an item is bad news.

[Bojangles69]

Oh good lord, I hope your brother will wake up and run away, it's too bad that you are being put into that situation.
I personally know that 3 is a crowd especially when 2 of them are a couple. How long do you foresee these living arrangements lasting?

They have been together since college, like 8 years, and noone thought it would last as long as it did.
So I think what will wind up prob happening is I'm gonna find a new place and go halfs with someone.
They'll either live together for a week, drive each other crazy and finally break up for good.
Or they'll get married, & drive each other crazy for the rest of their lives.

The only issue I have with moving out is I'm actually setting a trap for my brother. If he realizes the first month its not gonna work, they both are going to be stuck together.
I think at this point I just really don't care.