Speed Dating

[Amorphic]

Well spoken!

Most are usually in shock when I say something elegant or intelligent given I'm a pretty good looking guy.

It's like "Wait a second, you can't be good looking AND smart"

Having high expectations always makes you more desirable anyway, and I think girls can sense that a mile away.

my expectations have hurt my relationships more than helped. usually i end up wanting too much out of someone that cant give it and it all blows up.

i havent been able to find anyone i can relate to in like 3 months now, its crazy

[Phate]

my expectations have hurt my relationships more than helped. usually i end up wanting too much out of someone that cant give it and it all blows up.

i havent been able to find anyone i can relate to in like 3 months now, its crazy

i know bro, my last gf was like back in february, i realized it's just easier for me to have lots of gfs then to be exclusive, takes away alot of the pressure that comes with a relationship, i like it at least

[Amorphic]

i know bro, my last gf was like back in february, i realized it's just easier for me to have lots of gfs then to be exclusive, takes away alot of the pressure that comes with a relationship, i like it at least

i might go down that route just to raise my ego a little. ive never been the type so its a bit of a challenge for me to pick up a bunch of girls. (not like im unattractive or anything but i have a pretty intimidating look which can work against me at times)

[Phate]

i might go down that route just to raise my ego a little. ive never been the type so its a bit of a challenge for me to pick up a bunch of girls. (not like im unattractive or anything but i have a pretty intimidating look which can work against me at times)

i'm the same as far as the look goes, just try to go around all day with a nice smile like you're loving life and after a little while you will notice it's easier to talk and pick up people cause you start to project this positiveness all around you that people like

[bigt10]

i'm the same as far as the look goes, just try to go around all day with a nice smile like you're loving life and after a little while you will notice it's easier to talk and pick up people cause you start to project this positiveness all around you that people like

noooo this guy has got it. exactly.

its hard to explain you just need to be freindly, positive, and confident that what is really the sexiest or most attractive thing. if you are hot or look good that just seals the deal.

but phate is 100 % right.

[VeraDeMilo]

Me and my buddies used to go watch a local semi-pro baseball team play every thursday during the summer because its dollar beer night at the stadium. One night, the section in front of us had a speed dating thing going on. I guess everyone met at the stadium. They sat you next to someone new until the team made 3 outs. then you moved onto the next person until the next 3 outs were made. So by the end of the game you met and chatted with 18 different members of the opposite sex.

In theory it seemed like a good idea and looked like it could be fun. But the girls on that particular night all appeared overweight, ugly, aging, or crazy. (or all of the above in some cases)

[Phate]

i know bro, my last gf was like back in february, i realized it's just easier for me to have lots of gfs then to be exclusive, takes away alot of the pressure that comes with a relationship, i like it at least

of course as soon as i say this i get a girlfriend, but she's badass, and older than me so it's cool, her maturity level is up to mine and i think it's gonna work well, hopefully at least