Getting flamed is part of being a newb and asking stupid shit that could be answered if the poster would do a little work and read first. Second..just about everyone gets it to a certain extent early on..its part of the initiation process here...I got it on more than one occasion. AS long as it doesn't get too personal...as in referancing a persons race..ethnicity ..or even making reference to someone's mother...I think its OK. If people are too thin skinned...maybe they don't belong here.