Thanks Inky, and happy b-day btw

She says she cares about this girl, and wants to just do things right. I just said "kind of late for that".

She asked why, and I explained that she is cheating on her with me. I went on to tell her, she's not doing this girl any favors by faking a relationship, or cheating on her through the holidays. She said she just does not want to break up with her during the holidays, the advice comes from her Sister (17 years old) who had a boyfriend break up with her the day before thanksgiving.

Better to break up with her though, than cheat on her the day after thanksgiving? I mean I'm at her house for Thanksgiving Dinner.

I'm not threatened by her girlfriend, I don't know why, but I should be maybe. I like her girlfriend, and mostly worry about how she is being treated.

I finally called her and told her I don't want to see her again until she is single. I told her she may think what she is doing is okay, but I want no part of it.