Just hacked into my ex's myspace

[J-Dogg]

jesh, you guys are ass holes, lol.

is it really that bad? Do you just blindly trust someone after a year? Do you just give them your heart, trust and hope they are being honest even though they are seeing someone else?

Maybe I'm more curious than you more confident alpha males.

If a guy thinks his wife is cheating, sets him up, and he passes, she is reassured, feels better, he should be understanding given the situation.

If she can't understand my situation, then maybe I should move on. But if I don't tell her, and hide it, that makes the relationship unhealthy at that point. If she is okay with it, tells me "it's okay, I would want to do the same" then it's worth trying.

[scibble]

jesh, you guys are ass holes, lol.

is it really that bad? Do you just blindly trust someone after a year? Do you just give them your heart, trust and hope they are being honest even though they are seeing someone else?

Maybe I'm more curious than you more confident alpha males.

If a guy thinks his wife is cheating, sets him up, and he passes, she is reassured, feels better, he should be understanding given the situation.

If she can't understand my situation, then maybe I should move on. But if I don't tell her, and hide it, that makes the relationship unhealthy at that point. If she is okay with it, tells me "it's okay, I would want to do the same" then it's worth trying.

i can see that point of view....but still wouldn't tell her i did it.

[J-Dogg]

i can see that point of view....but still wouldn't tell her i did it.

If she did it to me, and found nothing, I would expect her to tell me, and tell me in a way that she was happy and felt good about me being honest all along.

I would not flip out, or be mad if I had nothing to hide.

If she found me talking to a girl in another town, trying to setup a play date, then I'd be pissed, yell and tell her she had no right to violate my privacy.

[Kratos]

If she did it to me, and found nothing, I would expect her to tell me, and tell me in a way that she was happy and felt good about me being honest all along.

I would not flip out, or be mad if I had nothing to hide.

If she found me talking to a girl in another town, trying to setup a play date, then I'd be pissed, yell and tell her she had no right to violate my privacy.

I get what you're saying...but you're talking about an invasion of privacy here. If you have a guilty concience about conducting covert-ops, don't do it again.

[J-Dogg]

I get what you're saying...but you're talking about an invasion of privacy here. If you have a guilty concience about conducting covert-ops, don't do it again.

I was actually listening to the radio this morning, on a show they had people call in who thought their spouse was cheating on them.

To attempt to catch them, they would call the spouse, tell them they won a dozen free rozes. Then ask who they wanted them delivered too.

None of the guys/girls got mad. They did it on air, with both people on the phone. IN every situation, the suspect-ee would say "oh baby, it's just you work late, or go over to hang out with the guys a lot, stay out late, I was just worried"

The other person always understood.

But I mean, I would not send flowers I won to my mistress either, so the guys probably were cheating and got away with it.

What was the point of me bringing that up now? hrm