Tips on How To Avoid the "Friend Zone"

[Gaspari1255]

Not there yet, don't wanna get there, once you're there...theres no getting out! Lets hear some do's and dont's.

[StoneGRMI]

-Don't go to lunch, lunches are for friends
-Don't give relationship advice to her on current/past relations
-Don't get to the third date without at least a kiss goodnight. If it gets passed the third date you're already in the friendzone.
-Don't text/email/call too much

[Phate]

don't talk about your ex/her exs
don't act like her damn friend, act like a potential mate
don't agree with everything she says all the time, women like a man that has his own viewpoints
don't lie and bullshvt her, it'll be obvious to her you are unless you're good at it
don't be too serious
don't check out her rack when you're talking to her

do be confident, almost on the verge of cocky
do have fun, joke around, let her see how much fun you are
do laugh and smile alot
do look her in the eyes when you talk to her
do invite her over for a movie and take things from there, great way to see where you are in her eyes

[JiGGaMaN]

heres the way i see it: if the girls attracted to you shes attracted to you. If shes not, then you are in the friend zone regardless. thats how it is. sorry.

[StoneGRMI]

heres the way i see it: if the girls attracted to you shes attracted to you. If shes not, then you are in the friend zone regardless. thats how it is. sorry.

That's what ugly people say.

[Rugger02]

That's what ugly people say.

LOL, good advise all around. How many friends did you guys have to make before these lists were compiled?

[xlxBigSexyxlx]

Make yourself scarce

Stop acting like her puppy dog and don’t be so available. Don’t get together with her at the drop of a hat. Wait a day or two to return one of her phone calls. Be a challenge, not a doormat.

Start dating other women

In other words, make her jealous. If she has any sexual interest in you at all, this will drive her crazy.

Ask her for advice about the women you’re dating

Openly talk about other women and how hot they are. Ask her for advice about what women want in a man and how you can get close to these women.

Tell her you want to be “just friends”

She isn’t stupid -- she’s known all along that you want to jump her bones, so if you reject her sexually, she won’t be able to stand it.

Start treating her like a girlfriend

Ask her out on dates. Take her to romantic places. Put your arm around her.

If she responds romantically, be challenging

Keep her off balance. Be a challenge. Be unpredictable. Keep her guessing. Never let her think that she’s got you by the cojones. There’s a huge difference between wanting her and needing her -- she’ll react a lot differently around you if she thinks you could leave her at any time for another pretty face.

[Kale]

Ask if you can fvck her in the arse on the first date, you definitely aren't in the friend zone then

[Phate]

Ask if you can fvck her in the arse on the first date, you definitely aren't in the friend zone then

LMAO, nice, i'll have to try that tomorrow

[sonysucks]

Try this one...so how bout that vagina...I was surprised by the reactions to that one....

[JDMSilviaSpecR]

Don't tell her anything personal about you
Don't treat her like she's anything special
Be funny, and throw out sexual innuendoes.
Don't be a p*ssy.

[Older lifter]

I have never had this problem,,, honest, women either hate me or sleep with me....

[Gaspari1255]

Ask if you can fvck her in the arse on the first date, you definitely aren't in the friend zone then

hahaha..man you crack me up. I hope that would be a tell tale fckin sign that i'm NOT in the friend zone!

[Phate]

hahaha..man you crack me up. I hope that would be a tell tale fckin sign that i'm NOT in the friend zone!

if your still in the friend zone after asking that, get away from the girl as fast as you can, talk about loose, lol

[Amorphic]

don't talk about your ex/her exs
don't act like her damn friend, act like a potential mate
don't agree with everything she says all the time, women like a man that has his own viewpoints
don't lie and bullshvt her, it'll be obvious to her you are unless you're good at it
don't be too serious
don't check out her rack when you're talking to her

do be confident, almost on the verge of cocky
do have fun, joke around, let her see how much fun you are
do laugh and smile alot
do look her in the eyes when you talk to her
do invite her over for a movie and take things from there, great way to see where you are in her eyes

agreed.

i'll really make a point of emphasizing the confidence thing. you've got to make her realize that other people want you. be confident, let her know how awesome you are, be the alpha male. this works incredibly well. if you dont have confidence, you dont have shit, pure and simple

[Deltasaurus]

Gangster Ass thread this is good sheot but im Fookin up im bout to hop in the Friend zone
u see i usually only mess with girls who have boyfriends then im always in the Booty Zone but i cant get off this one girl Heres my Rant Sorry to HIGH-JACK......NOT

OK straight up i have always done well with getting women im the Cocky Alpha-Male guy and im way to honest i dont like i keep it real and i aint ugly and its been alot easier lately because im getting cut up and girlies are usually pretty shallow.

So neways usually only mess with girls who have boyfriends because i dont want..or didnt want a relationship.
So i meet this girl we messed around a little but i never sealed the deal and then i lost my interest in her, OH BTW she did not have a BF so that meant i was considering dating her got it good.


So yah i tell me buddy to bang her so i wont wanna anymore and he does well the same nite her INCREDIBLY attractive friend who is about 18-19 years and is like a F-ing 20 on a scale 1 to 10 comes on to me and we mess around and kiss and is practically a virgin except 1 dude
Next night i take her to the movies and all we do is hold hands and im staiht up 100% content with that. Didnt wanna go to the movies but my bro took her friend i would have rather of chewed her ear of at starbucks and got to know her but like right now shes like perfect in my head, Innocent,Helpless,Weak,poor self esteem, i make her feel safe secure but shes a little shy and i love it but now its gettin to be a pain in the ass.

Then she get her cell phone hooked up-But she only has TEXT!!!!!!!

so she will only text me...yadda yadda u know its less confrontational and what not

so its hella hard to get my points across over texting and then we hangout again and she totally nervous around me and its pretty blatent, she brang her friend with her, i think to make her feel more comforatble and secure or something of that nature
She obviously has somewhat low self esteem and trust issues and i think she is intimidated by me or something but she obviously like me Too

im having a hard time communicating with her because we dont talk verbally on the phone and whenever we hang out its like never alone

Now i have AWESOME gabbing skillz and talk very well but we never get to avtaully talk
i normally wouldnt care and just chalk her off but for some damn Reason

I ACTUALLY LIKE HER yeah weird i know

so im trying to take things slow and not F-things up because this could be potentially a good relationship with a girl i like for who i think she is as of now without really knowing her all to way.

all i do know is:
Shes not a Slut
Shes got innocence that im totally into
daddys not around-figure that is some of the issues
She is not judgemental-She nows im a convict with a strike and doesnt judge me
and something else that i can put my finger on that makes me kinda sprung of her or have this kind of spark i dunno
help me out


-AJ

IMA Dirty lil high-jacker i know

[Phate]

Gangster Ass thread this is good sheot but im Fookin up im bout to hop in the Friend zone
u see i usually only mess with girls who have boyfriends then im always in the Booty Zone but i cant get off this one girl Heres my Rant Sorry to HIGH-JACK......NOT

OK straight up i have always done well with getting women im the Cocky Alpha-Male guy and im way to honest i dont like i keep it real and i aint ugly and its been alot easier lately because im getting cut up and girlies are usually pretty shallow.

So neways usually only mess with girls who have boyfriends because i dont want..or didnt want a relationship.
So i meet this girl we messed around a little but i never sealed the deal and then i lost my interest in her, OH BTW she did not have a BF so that meant i was considering dating her got it good.


So yah i tell me buddy to bang her so i wont wanna anymore and he does well the same nite her INCREDIBLY attractive friend who is about 18-19 years and is like a F-ing 20 on a scale 1 to 10 comes on to me and we mess around and kiss and is practically a virgin except 1 dude
Next night i take her to the movies and all we do is hold hands and im staiht up 100% content with that. Didnt wanna go to the movies but my bro took her friend i would have rather of chewed her ear of at starbucks and got to know her but like right now shes like perfect in my head, Innocent,Helpless,Weak,poor self esteem, i make her feel safe secure but shes a little shy and i love it but now its gettin to be a pain in the ass.

Then she get her cell phone hooked up-But she only has TEXT!!!!!!!

so she will only text me...yadda yadda u know its less confrontational and what not

so its hella hard to get my points across over texting and then we hangout again and she totally nervous around me and its pretty blatent, she brang her friend with her, i think to make her feel more comforatble and secure or something of that nature
She obviously has somewhat low self esteem and trust issues and i think she is intimidated by me or something but she obviously like me Too

im having a hard time communicating with her because we dont talk verbally on the phone and whenever we hang out its like never alone

Now i have AWESOME gabbing skillz and talk very well but we never get to avtaully talk
i normally wouldnt care and just chalk her off but for some damn Reason

I ACTUALLY LIKE HER yeah weird i know

so im trying to take things slow and not F-things up because this could be potentially a good relationship with a girl i like for who i think she is as of now without really knowing her all to way.

all i do know is:
Shes not a Slut
Shes got innocence that im totally into
daddys not around-figure that is some of the issues
She is not judgemental-She nows im a convict with a strike and doesnt judge me
and something else that i can put my finger on that makes me kinda sprung of her or have this kind of spark i dunno
help me out


-AJ

IMA Dirty lil high-jacker i know

bro i read it and i'm lost, what's the question? if you like her then seal the deal, shvt

[JiGGaMaN]

BigSexy, that post was pure genius. If you didnt copy/paste that shit, its probably the most brilliant piece of literature on this board.

[Deltasaurus]

^^^^ Yeah Big Sexy helped direct how to be a player

[xlxBigSexyxlx]

BigSexy, that post was pure genius. If you didnt copy/paste that shit, its probably the most brilliant piece of literature on this board.

Oh but I did.

It is sound advice

[Voice of Reason]

bleh...

[Ernst]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bDkhYP-H0dI

[Deltasaurus]

bleh...

LOL THATS AWESOME

[JDawg1536]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AZU8q...eature=channel

This chick gives some good advice.....

[Ernst]

Never let her pay for anything when she is with you.

[bushido3374]

Chick in Jdawg's video was right when she said that women will decide right away if they're attracted to you.

[JiGGaMaN]

Chick in Jdawg's video was right when she said that women will decide right away if they're attracted to you.

which conforms nicely with Dr. JiGGaMaN's theory.

[GT2]

BigSexy, that post was pure genius. If you didnt copy/paste that shit, its probably the most brilliant piece of literature on this board.

Agreed. All single guys need to print that out and stick it on their wall.

[Gaspari1255]

bro i read it and i'm lost, what's the question? if you like her then seal the deal, shvt

Yes I am in total agreement..Doesn't seem like anything is really holding you back, wife it.

[Deltasaurus]

Yes I am in total agreement..Doesn't seem like anything is really holding you back, wife it.

Im not gunna talk to her until friday and just test her and tell her "hey,Im going to a party,get dresses up and tell ally ill take you two with me"
Because if i leave the decsion up to her like saying"hey do u want to goto a party"
she will
say"IDK" or "maybe" or "yeah probably"
she's uhhhhh...... cant think of the word, maybe she likes to be told what to do i have know idea

[Phate]

Yes I am in total agreement..Doesn't seem like anything is really holding you back, wife it.

not what i meant, lol

Im not gunna talk to her until friday and just test her and tell her "hey,Im going to a party,get dresses up and tell ally ill take you two with me"
Because if i leave the decsion up to her like saying"hey do u want to goto a party"
she will
say"IDK" or "maybe" or "yeah probably"
she's uhhhhh...... cant think of the word, maybe she likes to be told what to do i have know idea

she likes other people to take the dominant role, so take it

[spywizard]

Make yourself scarce

Stop acting like her puppy dog and don’t be so available. Don’t get together with her at the drop of a hat. Wait a day or two to return one of her phone calls. Be a challenge, not a doormat.

Start dating other women

In other words, make her jealous. If she has any sexual interest in you at all, this will drive her crazy.

Ask her for advice about the women you’re dating

Openly talk about other women and how hot they are. Ask her for advice about what women want in a man and how you can get close to these women.

Tell her you want to be “just friends”

She isn’t stupid -- she’s known all along that you want to jump her bones, so if you reject her sexually, she won’t be able to stand it.

Start treating her like a girlfriend

Ask her out on dates. Take her to romantic places. Put your arm around her.

If she responds romantically, be challenging

Keep her off balance. Be a challenge. Be unpredictable. Keep her guessing. Never let her think that she’s got you by the cojones. There’s a huge difference between wanting her and needing her -- she’ll react a lot differently around you if she thinks you could leave her at any time for another pretty face.

yep yep

[calgarian]

Ask if you can fvck her in the arse on the first date, you definitely aren't in the friend zone then

you got my vote thats what i do....

[bushido3374]

which conforms nicely with Dr. JiGGaMaN's theory.

Exactly. I've purposely tried to make some women percieve me as a friend only because I feel really bad about hurting feelings and making them feel rejected and it just made them try harder. I've tried self deprecating humor, talking about my exes, emphasizing my shortcomings, ect and it just worked like an aphrodesiac to them.

[sizerp]

What if you Fukk them on the first date, and then for a month or two more then they are like peace out. They just a whore then huh.

[StoneGRMI]

Don't drop a huge deuce off at their place until at least the 5th time being in said place.

[sizerp]

Don't drop a huge deuce off at their place until at least the 5th time being in said place.

LOL. yeah but when you gotta shit, what you supposed to do? run outside and use the bushes?

[sizerp]

just carry incense, and when she asks what that smell is, tell her you're trying to livin up the place a bit, and that it's an aphrodisiac.

[zimmy]

number 1 rule

STICK YOUR DICK IN HER

[Dukkit]

ive never gotten close to friend territory. it was either straight sex or good bye