Ah, the 'diet realization', infamous isn't it?
Post a core diet, and modify it accordingly. There are plenty, PLENTY, of them on the site. Pick one that you like, adjust the macros/servings for your stats, post it and stick to it.
In my opinion, until you figure out how your body responds to several weeks of clean food, all advice is moot.
And I'll add to that by saying (and encouraging) that once you start sticking to a diet, your workouts will be insane sick.