Why do I fall for every woman???

[mustang331]

I'm similar, but not to that extent.

I have to break down my life into parts.

"Controlables" and "Uncontrolables"

COntrolables would be things you have 100% control over. Money, bills, working out, things that are controlled simply by your influence. You can only blame yourself for not having these in order.

Uncontrolables are things that are relationships, family, friends and such. These are things we have to accept that we do not have COMPLETE control over. We can influence them, but we don't have control over them.

If you have feelings for a girl, you can do your part, but if she does not want to be with you, that is not under your control. All you can do is keep taking care of your controlables. The uncontrolables will play a smaller role in your life, if you focus on your controlables. When everythings in order, things will work out.

If she wants to continue, and you feel for her, why not. YOu can't eliminate her as a option simply because of the way somthing worked out a past relationship.

Very well said.. She actually said the same thing back to me, in terms of falling for one another.. problem is, I am still scared, I just KNOW it will NOT be a good situation.. I don't like many things about her, but my feelings are telling me otherwise.. I wish I could just **** and thats it, but my feelings take over..

I read the book BTW too

[J-Dogg]

Very well said.. She actually said the same thing back to me, in terms of falling for one another.. problem is, I am still scared, I just KNOW it will NOT be a good situation.. I don't like many things about her, but my feelings are telling me otherwise.. I wish I could just **** and thats it, but my feelings take over..

I read the book BTW too

You are a lot like me with some of this, but I'll garantee if you are, you will find a reason to find SOMTHING wrong with EVERY girl. None will meet your standards.

Accept her for who she is, what she does and see how it goes. If things dont' work, they don't....in the mean time, keep the rest of your life under control!