It's not that hard to keep it under wraps. She is in bed every night by 8. Is too tired most of the time, can't go out late. and she understands my need to go out any day of the week in the evening with my buddy and come back really late...
and i agree. i'm not a pathological liar, so "filming a movie", I couldn't bring myself to make up sh1t like that.
i could just say that my home is a total dump and so dont want to bring her there...which is true