How much of a difference does being buff make in getting the girl?

[scibble]

it may seem silly, but buffed is living as part of a community and there are societal pressures and expectations on him which will affect his future in every way imaginable - it does not necessarily mean he personally has a problem with marrying outside his race, same religion.

[Gaspari1255]

I'm glad I came across this thread because I have thought about this a lot lately. The conclusion that I have come to is that muscles will definitely turn chicks heads and have them "eye-fcvking" you, if you will. But that does NOT mean that they are into you. I get a lot more girls being 6'3" 240lbs now because of one thing, confidence. I could have probably gotten the same chicks when I was 170lbs a few years ago, just did not have that confidence. muscles=confidence. However, several guys can pull hot chicks without muscles because of the confidence they have in general.

[BuffedGuy]

it may seem silly, but buffed is living as part of a community and there are societal pressures and expectations on him which will affect his future in every way imaginable - it does not necessarily mean he personally has a problem with marrying outside his race, same religion.

I have no problem with marrying a girl outside of my race. Prophet Muhammad [s] specifically arranged marriages between black-skinned and white-skinned people, in order to shatter that barrier. So from a religious view, I have no reason to forbid that.

But just biologically, I tend to be attracted to girls of my own race. I think a lot of guys feel this way, while a lot of other guys are 'equal opportunity.' But again, it's just a personal preference, like some guys like blonds.