If your girlfriend was saying this to another guy what would you do?

**mho** · 04-28-2009, 08:53 PM

Originally Posted by notus

So we are obviously done. I wasnt as ass even though i wanted to be. Even though she completely crushed me i didnt want her to hurt. She had some issues, as we all do. I hope the best for her.... Who knows we will see what happens from here. Thanks for all your guys advice.

You made the right choice bro

***RAGE*** · 04-28-2009, 08:54 PM

yes you did you will find true love, and when you do you will know it, it would have sucked living like that bro....best of luck to you

**notus** · 04-28-2009, 09:01 PM

Date: Tuesday, April 28, 2009, 2:58 PM
> > > Yep and u made sure u checked up oN me so here
> we
> > are
> > > Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry
> > >
> > > -----Original Message-----
> > >
> > >
> > > Date: Tue, 28 Apr 2009 19:54:50
> > > To
> > > Subject: Re: iii
> > >
> > >
> > > ummmm you gave me your password and said i
> dont do
> > anything
> > > on facebook that is wrong so i dont care if
> you check
> > up on
> > > me. you gave me permission.
> > >
> > >
> > > --- On Tue, 4/28/09, A
> > >
> > > > From: A
> > > > Subject: Re: iii
> > > > To: "g
> > > > Date: Tuesday, April 28, 2009, 2:51 PM
> > > > Because u were spying on me when u had
> no
> > right
> > > > Sent from my Verizon Wireless
> BlackBerry
> > > >
> > > > -----Original Message-----
> > > > From: g>
> > > >
> > > > Date: Tue, 28 Apr 2009 19:49:27
> > > > To: <
> > > > Subject: Re: iii
> > > >
> > > >
> > > > if you were trying to prove a point you
> > wouldnt of
> > > deleted
> > > > the converstation with him after each
> time you
> > sent
> > > > something. I dont know why you cant say
> im
> > sorry and
> > > work
> > > > through it
> > > >
> > > >
> > > > ---
> > > > > Date: Tuesday, April 28, 2009,
> 2:45 PM
> > > > > Ok g
> > > > > Sent from my Verizon Wireless
> > BlackBerry
> > > > >
> > > > > -----Original Message-----
> > > > > From: g
> > > > >
> > > > > Date: Tue, 28 Apr 2009 19:42:54
> > > > > To:
> <li
> > > > > Subject: Re: iii
> > > > >
> > > > >
> > > > > i told you guys and people like
> jason
> > didnt
> > > care
> > > > about our
> > > > > relationship. he is a piece of
> trash
> > true
> > > ****ing
> > > > scum and your actions are the same
> > > > >
> > > > >
> > > > > --- On Tue, 4/28/09,
> A
> > > > > > Subject: Re: iii
> > > > > > To: "g
> "
> > > > > <g
> > > > > > Date: Tuesday, April 28,
> 2009,
> > 2:35 PM
> > > > > > I gave what I could sorry
> u
> > don't
> > > believe
> > > > it
> > > > > > Sent from my Verizon
> Wireless
> > > BlackBerry
> > > > > >
> > > > > > -----Original
> Message-----
> > > > > > From: g
> > > > > >
> > > > > > Date: Tue, 28 Apr 2009
> 19:33:07
> > > > > > To:
> > <
> > > > > > Subject: Re: iii
> > > > > >
> > > > > >
> > > > > > no... thats not real
> love. Love
> > doesnt
> > > get
> > > > stretched
> > > > > to the
> > > > > > max that easily.
> > > > > >
> > > > > >
> > > > > > --- On Tue, 4/28/09,
> > A
> > > > > >
> > > > > > > From:
>
> > > > > >
> <lim>
> > > > > > > Subject: Re: iii
> > > > > > > To: "g
> > "
> > > > > >
> <gr>
> > > > > > > Date: Tuesday,
> April 28,
> > 2009,
> > > 2:31 PM
> > > > > > > My love was real
> it was
> > > stretched to
> > > > the max
> > > > > > > Sent from my
> Verizon
> > Wireless
> > > > BlackBerry
> > > > > > >
> > > > > > > -----Original
> > Message-----
> > > > > > > From: g> > > > > > >
> > > > > > > Date: Tue, 28 Apr
> 2009
> > 19:28:43
> > > > > > > To:
> > > <l
> > > > > > > Subject: Re: iii
> > > > > > >
> > > > > > >
> > > > > > > I always hang onto
> you
> > because i
> > > love
> > > > you so
> > > > > much and
> > > > > > i
> > > > > > > really thought you
> loved
> > me.
> > > This is a
> > > > tragedy
> > > > > and
> > > > > > shame.
> > > > > > >
> > > > > > >
> > > > > > > --- On Tue,
> 4/28/09,
> > > A
> > > > > > >
> > <li

> > > wrote:
> > > > > > >
> > > > > > > > From:
> A
>
> > > > > > > > U did test
> me. I
> > > didn't do
> > > > anything
> > > > >
> > > > > > > > Sent from
> my
> > Verizon
> > > Wireless
> > > > > BlackBerry
> > > > > > > >
> > > > > > > >
> -----Original
> > > Message-----
> > > > > > > > From:
>
> > > > > <g
> > > > > > > >
> > > > > > > > Date: Tue,
> 28 Apr
> > 2009
> > > 19:21:00
> > > > > > > > To:
> > > > <l
> > > > > > > > Subject:
> Re:
> > > > > > > >
> > > > > > > >
> > > > > > > > i didnt
> test
> > you.... you
> > > > wondered.
> > > > > > > >
> > > > > > > > --- On
> Tue,
> > 4/28/09,
> > > > A
> > > > wrote:
> > > > > > > >
> > > > > > > > >
> From:
> > A
> > > > > > > > >
> Subject:
> > Re:
> > > > > > > > > To:
> > "g
> > > > "
> > > > > > > >
> > > <g
> Date:
> > Tuesday,
> > > April 28,
> > > > 2009,
> > > > > 10:26 AM
> > > > > > > > > No I
> told u
> > I was
> > > maxed
> > > > out and
> > > > > u
> > > > > > tested me

**Reed** · 04-28-2009, 09:12 PM

"The one who cares the least controls the relationship"

And reading a little bit of that proves she doesn't care as much as you do IMO. She doesn't even seemed upset or worried about losing you or what she has done, just upset that you would even question her and spy on her.....

Just ignore and forget her, do as jamy suggested, find a new chick as fast as you can, it'll make it easier

**Lightsout2184** · 04-28-2009, 09:14 PM

bro i hope u find a better one.

BG · 04-28-2009, 09:15 PM

Originally Posted by notus

we were talking marriage

And she was dreaming about strange cock.

***D7M*** · 04-28-2009, 09:20 PM

Originally Posted by Reed

"The one who cares the least controls the relationship"

And reading a little bit of that proves she doesn't care as much as you do IMO. She doesn't even seemed upset or worried about losing you or what she has done, just upset that you would even question her and spy on her.....

Just ignore and forget her, do as jamy suggested, find a new chick as fast as you can, it'll make it easier

exactly!

OP, you caught her saying some fcked up shit to another guy, and you ask her to try to work through it?

bad move.

Originally Posted by BG

And she was dreaming about strange cock.

**notus** · 04-28-2009, 09:32 PM

Originally Posted by Reed

"The one who cares the least controls the relationship"

And reading a little bit of that proves she doesn't care as much as you do IMO. She doesn't even seemed upset or worried about losing you or what she has done, just upset that you would even question her and spy on her.....

Just ignore and forget her, do as jamy suggested, find a new chick as fast as you can, it'll make it easier

wow that is sooo true

**notus** · 04-28-2009, 09:34 PM

Originally Posted by derek7m

exactly!

OP, you caught her saying some fcked up shit to another guy, and you ask her to try to work through it?

bad move.

yeah i think your right... bad move.

***D7M*** · 04-28-2009, 09:36 PM

^eh.

live and learn.

**Bojangles69** · 04-28-2009, 09:42 PM

Originally Posted by notus

So we are obviously done. I wasnt as ass even though i wanted to be. Even though she completely crushed me i didnt want her to hurt. She had some issues, as we all do. I hope the best for her.... Who knows we will see what happens from here. Thanks for all your guys advice.

Its rough dude.

ESPECIALLY if this is the first girl you've really caught feelings for.

Relationships in reality brainwash people. They teach you to rosetint a lot of characteristics about a person that a normal person would not appreciate or could most likely be repulsed by.

Like her crooked nose, her squeaky mouse voice, the way she can't pluck her eyebrows right, but we learn to associate positive things to what we'd normally consider flaws.
Which is where the term "love is blind" stems from I suppose.

You need to understand the process of getting over a person is usually just as gradual as getting into someone.
Your mind now needs to slowly reassociate everything you've learned or felt about a person.

Maybe she was always late for something and you thought it was cute.
Maybe she always lost her keys and you liked it.
Maybe when she was on her period you thought you were in a movie called exorsism and thought it was exciting.

After the break up though maybe you'll realize,
people who are always late are usually people with fuzzy priorities.
people who always lose their keys are really just forgetful and not that bright
people whos heads spin when they're bleeding grotesque and foul liquids from their body aren't really exciting, but some kind of scary alien lifeform.

My point being, a break up is usually the interjection of reality into a selfmade fairytale.
This doesn't mean all relationships are some fake bs fairytale, but to a large extent idealization, hopes and dreams are what they thrive on.
And the real pain from a relationship (**IMO**) is not really the seperation or not seeing a person anymore, I think the pain is SEEING a "new" person you never saw before, and not liking it, because that was NOT the person you saw when you met them.
Its almost like you created that person in your mind and they never existed, and the crazy part, thats really not too far from the truth.

**Reed** · 04-28-2009, 09:47 PM

Its alright bro.... you gonna be fine just remember that its JUST a relationship you have many other things that could be much worse in your life....

I suggest not to be a dick or try to get back at her or anything like that..... Be mature and try to humble yourself through the situation. Its hard to be that when your emotions are in full force but IDK how many mutual friends you have but you'd be best to come out of this as the mature one as this can be in your benefit later if other ladies see you doing such.....

I would just text the girl back and tell her you have had some time to think and its over, and you will need some space for a while so please don't call or text as they will go unanswered.....

It'll suck man and you'll have to suffer through a few sleepless nights with your heart literally feeling like it wants to jump out of your throat or crack but be strong.

Still go out and try to find you another girl for now..... just a piece of ass to make it through

**notus** · 04-28-2009, 09:56 PM

you guys are all alright... thanks for the help and encouragment

**Nooomoto** · 04-28-2009, 10:11 PM

Originally Posted by notus

we gave each other our facebook passwords because we were having trust issues

Fist that bitch, dude. Then dump her.

**IronReload04** · 04-28-2009, 10:14 PM

Originally Posted by gixxerboy1

get her naked and start to act like you are going down on her. Then use this on her vag

I love this ****ing site

**thebigguyy1** · 04-28-2009, 10:25 PM

Originally Posted by notus

you guys are all alright... thanks for the help and encouragment

I know you did the right thing, and trust me, years from now you may not even remember here name.

And one more important thing:

The are over 6 BILLION people walking this planet, you WILL meet someone else. The RIGHT someone else...just give it time....

Ron III---III

**jbm** · 04-28-2009, 10:28 PM

Originally Posted by notus

So we are obviously done. I wasnt as ass even though i wanted to be. Even though she completely crushed me i didnt want her to hurt. She had some issues, as we all do. I hope the best for her.... Who knows we will see what happens from here. Thanks for all your guys advice.

Right decision!

**CHUCKYthentic** · 04-28-2009, 10:38 PM

you made the right choice for now man definitely

you may never be able to trust her again after this. and maybe if it is meant to be she will straighten up and grow up and you 2 can work it out. wish you the best bro!

**collar** · 04-28-2009, 10:57 PM

Originally Posted by jamyjamjr

lol..

when my ex cheated on me i ended up moving in with a porn star... let's just say her facebook wall was full of wonderful pictures of me, my hot ass porn star chick, and 5 of her friends on my dick....

that bitch came running back to me.. called me 1000 times.. 999 of them i had diff girls pick up the phone telling her i was to buzy getting my dick sucked to talk to her....

that skank.. i was faithful to her for 5 fcuking years... 5 years i never touched another women....

fcuk her.. i hope she fcukin rots...

take a lesson learned from me.. never trust a b i t c h

i thought you might have had past experience with this sort of thing, when you went of your cracker about it lol.

**Polska** · 04-28-2009, 11:17 PM

Well now is the best time to f uck all of her (hot) friends....

**jamyjamjr** · 04-29-2009, 12:32 AM

Originally Posted by mho

I don't believe you, let me see them pix!

she's naked in them.. i posted up pics in t-mos's thread.. or was it the mens room... i had to take it down.. adim woulda gave me shit...

ask T-MOS and jbm.. they've seen her

**jamyjamjr** · 04-29-2009, 12:38 AM

Originally Posted by collar

i thought you might have had past experience with this sort of thing, when you went of your cracker about it lol.

and bitches wonder why we act like dogs.. it's cuzza girls like the OP's bitch...

fcuking skanks... i was good to that woman, i treated her well, my eyes wouldn't wander at all.. the hottest chick could have been passing by and my eye contact would stay on her....

fcuk that bitches life........

dont let yourself caught up with some skank... take the time to find a REAL WOMAN.. and then give yourself 10 years to even start thinkin about trustin her..

as of right now, go out and get ur cock sucked... take pictures of it and post it up so she can see it.... if it's one of her friends, all the better

leave ur pitty at the door for this bitch.. break her....

btw.. i still have the shovel and lime salt.......

dumb skanks

**jbm** · 04-29-2009, 12:41 AM

For you notus!

**jamyjamjr** · 04-29-2009, 01:31 AM

i just wanted to articulate and elaborate..

i say we kill the bitch....

**jbm** · 04-29-2009, 01:37 AM

This is what you need ASAP!

**jamyjamjr** · 04-29-2009, 01:40 AM

j, ur sucking all the woman hating out of this thread with all the hot ass ur putting up.. stop damn it!!!!!

**jbm** · 04-29-2009, 01:42 AM

Originally Posted by jamyjamjr

j, ur sucking all the woman hating out of this thread with all the hot ass ur putting up.. stop damn it!!!!!

Go to the bathroom bro!!! make love to yourself... LOLOL!

**jamyjamjr** · 04-29-2009, 02:03 AM

^^ no damn it, IM BITCH HATING RIGHT NOW....

(btw i already did that u bastard)

**jbm** · 04-29-2009, 02:05 AM

Originally Posted by jamyjamjr

^^ no damn it, im bitch hating right now....

(btw i already did that u bastard)

lolololol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

**Immortal Soldier** · 04-29-2009, 02:09 AM

That copy and paste of your mobile text messages made my eyes bleed, I didn't even know wtf I was reading who was saying what and why the **** there weres so man >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> of these.

**jbm** · 04-29-2009, 02:16 AM

Originally Posted by Immortal Soldier

That copy and paste of your mobile text messages made my eyes bleed, I didn't even know wtf I was reading who was saying what and why the **** there weres so man >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> of these.

This might clear your eyes!

**SnaX** · 04-29-2009, 02:18 AM

Originally Posted by notus

you guys are all alright... thanks for the help and encouragment

Notus, that is not love. It hurts, move on. I will tell you something; In this life, we will move on from people whom we truly believed we loved, in order to find that person who is looking for us. This is not the end, but you can make it the end, if you'd like, by staying with her.
Will this be your end?

Take care bro.

**hugovsilva** · 04-29-2009, 03:31 AM

Originally Posted by Polska

Well now is the best time to f uck all of her (hot) friends....

This would be my suggestion also.

**collar** · 04-29-2009, 04:31 AM

Originally Posted by jamyjamjr

i just wanted to articulate and elaborate..

I say we kill the bitch....

lol.

**vpchill** · 04-29-2009, 04:46 AM

In The Immortal Words of Snoop Doggy Dogg - Bitches aint Shvt!!

**CptAmericaX** · 04-29-2009, 04:58 AM

Dude im really sorry to hear that, jodie got ahold of my buddies g/f after 2 years of being together, she is about 22 and she cheated on him with a 18 year old, like wtf is wrong with women really sometimes I wonder what goes on threw there little pee skulls.

Anywomen on here dont take offence but this is BS because yah some dudes are dogs and what ever but when a chick has a good guy they tend to throw it all away.

**vpchill** · 04-29-2009, 05:02 AM

GoodGuys Finish Last. Look at Chucky, What did it say on his Package?? Anyone?
- You guessed it, GoodGuy Doll.
They been killing him off for Years. Moral to the story (Childsplay 1-10) Goodguys finish last, so grab a Knife and Kill the Bitch!
WWCD? - What Would Chucky Do

**DSM4Life** · 04-29-2009, 06:31 AM

Originally Posted by BG

And she was dreaming about strange cock.

We've all been there.

**DSM4Life** · 04-29-2009, 06:32 AM

**MASTER** · 04-29-2009, 06:46 AM

Have you confronted her with - "what the **** is this?" If not do it now. If I were you it would be boot, ass, door. Relationships are supposed to be bring positivity and happiness to your life. Having the cheating question mark in your head (especially when its wholly justifiable as in your case) all the time will only stress you out. If she really cared, she wouldn't do that shit.

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