I dont want to die

[amcon]

dude.. seriously im not liking your additude... we're here to help people.. some people are self-concious.. u ever think about that??? why dont you add a filter to that thought process and look deeper into the situation??? the guy is reaching out to us the best way he knows how... this is what iv been busting my ass to do in the diet forum.. im in here 4 hrs a day minimum trying to help people who were in the similar situation.. i was nearly 30% myself at one point... iv made the changes through this diet forum.. i plan on helping others do the same thing..

so get over the flaming bro.. let's help the guy out... if he is bullshit, that's his curse.. if he's not, thats my responsibility... and everyone elses on this forum...

you are passionate about helping people so your clouded to the issue at hand... i'll make a deal w you ... you take care of his diet and i will call him out on his lieing - that is what i do daily and get paid stupid money to do so...

issue at hand he loves his family and wants to be there for his bro's kid...(thank God we have people like this in this world!!!) problem: he says he can dunk and that other crap... at your former weight could you do that? do you really think he can?

you = diet
me = his mind

[eatrainrest]

you are passionate about helping people so your clouded to the issue at hand... i'll make a deal w you ... you take care of his diet and i will call him out on his lieing - that is what i do daily and get paid stupid money to do so...

issue at hand he loves his family and wants to be there for his bro's kid...(thank God we have people like this in this world!!!) problem: he says he can dunk and that other crap... at your former weight could you do that? do you really think he can?

you = diet
me = his mind

im going to have to disagree here and for the sake of the diet forum, thers not me and you its WE and WE are here to help not flame

[Necrosaro]

We need to get back to topic as well and help this dude out.

[jamyjamjr]

you are passionate about helping people so your clouded to the issue at hand... i'll make a deal w you ... you take care of his diet and i will call him out on his lieing - that is what i do daily and get paid stupid money to do so...

issue at hand he loves his family and wants to be there for his bro's kid...(thank God we have people like this in this world!!!) problem: he says he can dunk and that other crap... at your former weight could you do that? do you really think he can?

you = diet
me = his mind

and who put u in charge of such a thing??

seeing as how the only place u can flame people is in the lounge, who's "paying" you to flame people???

what he said doesn't make sense... i wont disagree with you there.. but look past that and follow the true problem.. his diet and lifestyle... let's focus on that...

i really bust my ass not to turn anyone away at this diet branch.. when i initialy posted my diet here, no one responded for 5 days till phate came and saved the day.. i will not turn willing people away, and do not tolerate flaming..

please, allocate your knowledge and help me set this guy straight with his diet.. and let the rest be oblivious..

[amcon]

and who put u in charge of such a thing??

seeing as how the only place u can flame people is in the lounge, who's "paying" you to flame people???

what he said doesn't make sense... i wont disagree with you there.. but look past that and follow the true problem.. his diet and lifestyle... let's focus on that...

i really bust my ass not to turn anyone away at this diet branch.. when i initialy posted my diet here, no one responded for 5 days till phate came and saved the day.. i will not turn willing people away, and do not tolerate flaming..

please, allocate your knowledge and help me set this guy straight with his diet.. and let the rest be oblivious..

good response... lets start with getting his name changed my admin... if he is going to make a change he need to see him self in a dif light...

... not flaming this part just putting my point of referance...

i didnt grow up with a dad, he left when i was a baby - lucky for me come to find out. if he did stay (he was a very wealthy man, with a very bad self image) and he was my role model what would i have turned out to be? what would he teach me? thanks to the Lord he was not there - and i turned to other sorces to get my male leadership (thank you grampa's) so, loosing weight will help his self image about 1000x and give him better self worth... but you know as well as i do if he is going to make a change it will be at the level of his self worth... i agree he is screaming for help - but is the weight all that he needs?

i will say it again i capitol letters (IF HE IS LEGIT, I WILL BE THE FIRST TO STAND BEHIND HIM AND CLAP AS HE REACHES HIS GOAL!!! AS HE BECOMES THE LEADER OF A SMALL BOY, AND STARTS TO MOLD THAT BOYS MIND WITH POSITIVE RESULTS, NOT FROM THE LEVEL OF TALK BUT THE LEVEL OF WALKING THE WALK!!!)

[jamyjamjr]

good response... lets start with getting his name changed my admin... if he is going to make a change he need to see him self in a dif light...

... not flaming this part just putting my point of referance...

i didnt grow up with a dad, he left when i was a baby - lucky for me come to find out. if he did stay (he was a very wealthy man, with a very bad self image) and he was my role model what would i have turned out to be? what would he teach me? thanks to the Lord he was not there - and i turned to other sorces to get my male leadership (thank you grampa's) so, loosing weight will help his self image about 1000x and give him better self worth... but you know as well as i do if he is going to make a change it will be at the level of his self worth... i agree he is screaming for help - but is the weight all that he needs?

i will say it again i capitol letters (IF HE IS LEGIT, I WILL BE THE FIRST TO STAND BEHIND HIM AND CLAP AS HE REACHES HIS GOAL!!! AS HE BECOMES THE LEADER OF A SMALL BOY, AND STARTS TO MOLD THAT BOYS MIND WITH POSITIVE RESULTS, NOT FROM THE LEVEL OF TALK BUT THE LEVEL OF WALKING THE WALK!!!)

would you disagree with me if i were to say theres a much more subtle way to go about with your intention???

as self-justifyingly as your intentions are, ur scaring him away in a sense.. we wanna make our new members as welcoming as possible..

trust me, iv blown up at a select few people myself.. iv been pushed to that limit.. i can understand where u come from.. just add a coupla yard to that limit u have right now.. be a little more tolerable of the situation..

[fatboy08]

would you disagree with me if i were to say theres a much more subtle way to go about with your intention???

as self-justifyingly as your intentions are, ur scaring him away in a sense.. we wanna make our new members as welcoming as possible..

trust me, iv blown up at a select few people myself.. iv been pushed to that limit.. i can understand where u come from.. just add a coupla yard to that limit u have right now.. be a little more tolerable of the situation..

Thanks, but it is not scaring me away. I was a fat kid. I was teased everyday. My own father put me down every single day. It is nothing new to me and with you and everyone else helping out, yes even amcon, I'll get through it.

[fatboy08]

I do plan on starting a workout program. I will look through these threads for advice. I purchased a membership to the gym today. I plan on doing cardio in the early morning before work. I then plan and doing more cardio/weights at around 8pm after the kids practices and all the other stuff. Im taking my nephew with me. He wants to come and I'm excited about that.