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    Quote Originally Posted by amcon View Post
    brother, the issue may not just be the medical needs she has been going through... when what the last time you took her out? most times (and this may not be your case) it stems from deep in her, frustrated, lack of forgiveness, too much stress and more that she is going though(on top of all the other things she is dealing with medically)

    #1 - ask her on a date
    #2 - dont even try to get physical with here till this is fixed or close to fixed
    #3 - seek councling - you both go (tell her it is for you not her)
    #4 - does she have a past w abuse (dont answer this) but look in to it, council shoud help if she does
    #5 - bro, take care of your self in the shower or in the prone and tmoss love thread

    ... as for the trt/hrt you on now what are you numbers? that would be a good place to start - if your way high that might be a place to cut back some... but, if you numbers are right on and your just being you then what can you do???? well, you could get some tren and kill your sex drive (i am just kidding!!!)
    100% agree! There may be other issues in her head that could be addressed first. Try to reach her first. If you stop, you could develope resentments that will only complicate your relationship further.

    Depending upon how you are coping with her situation, she may resent your "selfishness". If she gets it into her head that you are only interested in satisfying yourself, she will shut down and the road back will be a lonely one.
    Look at it this way, she is feeling as if her life is deteriorating and you are feeling better than you have in many years. I see this as a time to try and understand her head, do a lot of masterbating, and build a deeper relationship through this.

    Or not, because the alternative will destroy your marriage.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Theatrix View Post
    100% agree! There may be other issues in her head that could be addressed first. Try to reach her first. If you stop, you could develope resentments that will only complicate your relationship further.

    Depending upon how you are coping with her situation, she may resent your "selfishness". If she gets it into her head that you are only interested in satisfying yourself, she will shut down and the road back will be a lonely one.
    Look at it this way, she is feeling as if her life is deteriorating and you are feeling better than you have in many years. I see this as a time to try and understand her head, do a lot of masterbating, and build a deeper relationship through this.

    Or not, because the alternative will destroy your marriage.
    your spot on it, How she feels is in bold print of your quote.

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