6 year breakup.... anyone have any motivational speaker audio clips / videos ?

[vpchill]

wow.... those are some more awesome words to read.... Thanks for taking the time to type that up for me and share what you know. Seriously all of this is sooo valuable to me.... one thing is I hear everyone saying I need to 'find myself' etc... How does one go about doing that if they have been lost for so long? Does it just take time alone and that's it? (sorry might be a silly question but I'm serious... I want to know how to be happy with ME and find myself)

Thanks again!

Its Not Silly. Its honesty. You have to find you and what you like. Make yourself happy. Make yourself smile. Do the things you couldnt do too often because your relationship didnt allow you the time.
As the saying goes, You cant love someone unless you love yourself 1st.
DO YOU - excatly what it says. You take the time and DO for yourself.

[tripmachine]

Its Not Silly. Its honesty. You have to find you and what you like. Make yourself happy. Make yourself smile. Do the things you couldnt do too often because your relationship didnt allow you the time.
As the saying goes, You cant love someone unless you love yourself 1st.
DO YOU - excatly what it says. You take the time and DO for yourself.

Ok cool... I will start working on myself and doing everything for me now.... I used to rely on her for a lot of things but I shouldn't have ever relied on her or anyone for that matter.... it only seemed to make me weak and vulnerable. This game of life is tough but it's awesome at the same time. Very crazy. :] This help from this thread i'm getting is seriously making my day a MUCH happier day..