Cancun Weekend......Suggestions

[T-MOS]

Awww....


poor TMOS, you shouldn't want her if she treated you bad in the first place, you have to realize that you deserve better than that. And you must like something about this girl that you are with now, and it's not fair to her if she doesn't know that you don't see a future with her. Do you think there is any chance it might work out with her?

thats just it Kat, she treated me wonderful...but she is married.....
so the guilt of feeling the need to "give it one more chance" set in and caused us all our problems. Everyone said she had to end that first and do it without me....so.... but of coarse her hubby knows she was gonna leave and stepped up his game as I told her he would......bought her a new car and all.....

i don't think I would ever be able to fully trust her now, but I would want to try if she came back and said that she had to leave me in order to come back to me......HOPELESS ROMANTIC........

The girl I am with now is great to me....we have talked about the age difference and her wanting kids and me not, and she is just happy for now and enjoying the time we spend together so I am just going with it until she feels the need to move on

[DOM6]

thats just it Kat, she treated me wonderful...but she is married.....
so the guilt of feeling the need to "give it one more chance" set in and caused us all our problems. Everyone said she had to end that first and do it without me....so.... but of coarse her hubby knows she was gonna leave and stepped up his game as I told her he would......bought her a new car and all.....

i don't think I would ever be able to fully trust her now, but I would want to try if she came back and said that she had to leave me in order to come back to me......HOPELESS ROMANTIC........

The girl I am with now is great to me....we have talked about the age difference and her wanting kids and me not, and she is just happy for now and enjoying the time we spend together so I am just going with it until she feels the need to move on

Come to Ft. Lauderdale
you'll meet a new girl everyday of the week

[T-MOS]

Come to Ft. Lauderdale
you'll meet a new girl everyday of the week

you don't know how much I would LOVE to move to florida !!

and Kat, the reason for the nice present is , I have known this girl for about 7 years, she worked for me

and this is her GOLDEN birthday, you know the one where she is the age of the date she was born.(24 on the 24th)...you only get one of those, so I wanted to make it special and I haven't had a vacation in about 2 years and might not get another one til you and BigKat tie the noose , i mean knot.......LOLOL

[KatsMeow]

you don't know how much I would LOVE to move to florida !!

and Kat, the reason for the nice present is , I have known this girl for about 7 years, she worked for me

and this is her GOLDEN birthday, you know the one where she is the age of the date she was born.(24 on the 24th)...you only get one of those, so I wanted to make it special and I haven't had a vacation in about 2 years and might not get another one til you and BigKat tie the noose , i mean knot.......LOLOL

LOL I didn't even catch that the first time, somehow I completely missed this post.

You are so sweet for making her "golden" birthday a good one...I've never even heard of that before.
Too bad mine was when in turned 10! Maybe next year will be a good one since my birthday will be 10-10-2010 and I'll be a quarter of a century old...LOL

[ghettoboyd]

LOL I didn't even catch that the first time, somehow I completely missed this post.

You are so sweet for making her "golden" birthday a good one...I've never even heard of that before.
Too bad mine was when in turned 10! Maybe next year will be a good one since my birthday will be 10-10-2010 and I'll be a quarter of a century old...LOL

no doubt thats me and the wifes anaversary 10/10....small world

[KatsMeow]

thats just it Kat, she treated me wonderful...but she is married.....
so the guilt of feeling the need to "give it one more chance" set in and caused us all our problems. Everyone said she had to end that first and do it without me....so.... but of coarse her hubby knows she was gonna leave and stepped up his game as I told her he would......bought her a new car and all.....

i don't think I would ever be able to fully trust her now, but I would want to try if she came back and said that she had to leave me in order to come back to me......HOPELESS ROMANTIC........

The girl I am with now is great to me....we have talked about the age difference and her wanting kids and me not, and she is just happy for now and enjoying the time we spend together so I am just going with it until she feels the need to move on

ouch I hope that doesn't happen to me


and I have a feeling that your GF is waiting because she thinks in due time you will change your idea of what you want to suit her better

[T-MOS]

ouch I hope that doesn't happen to me


and I have a feeling that your GF is waiting because she thinks in due time you will change your idea of what you want to suit her better

well, she knows I am fixed, so no kids for me !!!

not well off right now financially, so that doesn't help make me want to think about raising kids right now.....damnn economy.....

so like I said, we talked....funny thing is even with the age difference, we get along great, play well together, and have fun doing whatever....she IS a sweetheart, I am just AFRAID to give my heart completely again....

[KatsMeow]

well, she knows I am fixed, so no kids for me !!!

not well off right now financially, so that doesn't help make me want to think about raising kids right now.....damnn economy.....

so like I said, we talked....funny thing is even with the age difference, we get along great, play well together, and have fun doing whatever....she IS a sweetheart, I am just AFRAID to give my heart completely again....

your guards will come down with time, it sounds like you two are good for each other, and if you can make it through the tough times with the economy and whatnot you are set for the future