
Originally Posted by
Bojangles69
People might say "it can go either way logically" but I think its headed in a specific direction.
Meaning, yes plenty of people do great in LDRs, and plenty of people don't make it. The only factor that will affect that is how much you 2 care for each other, and how balanced that love is.
You did not word this thread in a way that made me think shes been asking your approval to go to Grad School. You sound irritated by the idea, and I'm assuming your irritation is already you sensing some sort of detachment (at least emotionally for now) on her part.
My advice would simply be check yourself and don't be paranoid. Take life as it comes and just be ready *encase it does happen. And realize you can end the relationship simply by changing your behavoir and becoming clingy/demanding. So you have no other real smart choice then to just be cool & prepared for whatever life throws your way. ya dig