I just dont care-Help needed?

[l2elapse]

I think the biggest problem is ever since I was 16, one bad thing after another happened in my life and I have reached a point in thinking, why should I look for brighter things when bad things keep happening?

[TITANIUM]

I think the biggest problem is ever since I was 16, one bad thing after another happened in my life and I have reached a point in thinking, why should I look for brighter things when bad things keep happening?

Bro, your lost right now.

Dumping negative energy, though not done purposely, makes depression worse.

My life sucked when I was at that age.

Therapy with a psychiatrist, that actually cares, will help.

Just takes time.

I think that your post is not weak minded at all.

Takes alot to open up to people like that.

I admire you for doing so.

This forum is excellent place to get ideas and feedback on things.

Most of these members here can relate to you.

And they genuinely seem to care.

I think you took a great step forward by doing so.

It gets better bro, I promise.

HD always has great advice.

He is one of my friends on here, that gives great insight and has great foresight.

Try finding something that you loved to do as a little kid.

Then, take some time off from work, even if it is just a day.

Then , go out and do it.

It's great.

Very therapeutic, and relaxing.

Good luck.

And if you ever feel like posting anything at all, this is the place to do it in.

peace bro

Titanium.

[Dancer]

Bro, your lost right now.

Dumping negative energy, though not done purposely, makes depression worse.

My life sucked when I was at that age.

Therapy with a psychiatrist, that actually cares, will help.

Just takes time.

I think that your post is not weak minded at all.

Takes alot to open up to people like that.

I admire you for doing so.

This forum is excellent place to get ideas and feedback on things.

Most of these members here can relate to you.

And they genuinely seem to care.

I think you took a great step forward by doing so.

It gets better bro, I promise.

HD always has great advice.

He is one of my friends on here, that gives great insight and has great foresight.

Try finding something that you loved to do as a little kid.

Then, take some time off from work, even if it is just a day.

Then , go out and do it.

It's great.

Very therapeutic, and relaxing.

Good luck.

And if you ever feel like posting anything at all, this is the place to do it in.

peace bro

Titanium.

I fully agree..

I fo want to add in any persons life there is going to be ups and down, I have never seen a person just have ups....


What goals do you have?

Where are you in terms of goals in your life?

I mean physical goals, school, private... more over have you done some soal searchin

[Undercover]

I think the biggest problem is ever since I was 16, one bad thing after another happened in my life and I have reached a point in thinking, why should I look for brighter things when bad things keep happening?

So find a purpose. What do you like to do? find that and dedicate your life to it. that's the secret to happiness.

have you reached that phase where you start hating everyone and everything? i've been there. i really hated happy people the most. like "are you ****ing happy with ur skateboard running around on the street like that u ****ing **** shit face dick cocksucker bitch?!?!?!?"

hate can be the reason you're feeling like that.

[Hazard]

I think the biggest problem is ever since I was 16, one bad thing after another happened in my life and I have reached a point in thinking, why should I look for brighter things when bad things keep happening?

DUDE..... it sounds like you've had a conversation with my wife. She has said that exact same thing. She's been diagnosed manic depresant and the psych thinks it stemmed from her fathers death (post traumatic stress disorder) - she lost a best friend..... then her father..... then her dog..... sh*t just kept going wrong over the coarse of like 4 years.

It's a struggle man..... every single day is a struggle for her. She takes medication but the meds aren't magic pills. Yah gotta get up everyday and make the best of it..... things will get better for you..... just takes time.

~Haz~

[CBGB]

Sit back and relax, think of something you use to love. Something that made you happy, if only for a short time. Something that made you smile. I have been like this during times of my life. What makes me happy is going out in the middle of the woods or at the edge of a creek and sitting. Alone and reflecting. It gives me time to think of the positive things in my life that I lose sight of. You too have great things, you just need a refresher. You'll find them, you just have to take the time.

Good luck

[Tjohn6231]

Hey man, listen to me really closely. Im 33 now, but I had the same thing happen to me in my early 20's.
It got so bad that my mom called the cops to come take a look at me. A long story short.....It ended with a high speed chase, me threatening to take my own life with knife in hand in front of about 12 cops in my moms front yard. It was terrible.
My problem was drugs, and I was staying depressed because I wanted to stop, but couldnt. The cops shouldve shot, and killed me that day. I was a clear threat to them with a weapon, and being violent, but Im still here.
Your situation will pass, but you have to try, and get passed it.
I wont ask you what your problems are, but theres answer to everything.
Also, I shouldve done serious jail time, but I got away with a week in rehab, and a $1000 fine. I still cant figure out how I got off so lightly.
Whether you need to change friends/GF/living situation, or whatever, then you need to take the first step.
Im 33, and I have a house, 2 cars, a wife, and 2 beautiful kids.
If I wouldve ended my life that day, then I wouldnt be here to experience the awesome things that life have to offer.
Stay positive bro......youll pull out of this. Ive been there.