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    Quote Originally Posted by DS21 View Post
    The thing is she was a virgin when I meet her and I married thinking I was the only one that sleep with her. The reason we split up was because she cheated on me with the same guy she sleeps with, and I"m being silly?

    Have you ever been cheated on or lied to? It is hard to believe someone when they lied to your face countless times, and maybe integrety doesn't mean much to you, but it means everything to me.
    Actually it sounds to me like you've got some insecurity issues.

    From the sounds of it you are just upset because you aren't the only one who tapped that ass. That's awfully controlling.

    Let me repeat: get over it and move on. it means nothing in the long run.

    Wipe away the tears, go give your daughter a hug, and forgive your wife. It will be the best decision of your life.

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    While I agree that you should move on and put it in the past. I will add that you have a scar. You can't heal it anymore and it is visible, but you have to move on and deal with it. If you can salvage the marriage I recommend that.

    I believe in basing a relationship out of trust. That is a big deal... I think it is really hard to move on when you know you can't trust someone. The only way to know how to go forward, is to assess her as a person and the overall situation. We won't ever know this part to give you good advice.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rockinred View Post
    While I agree that you should move on and put it in the past. I will add that you have a scar. You can't heal it anymore and it is visible, but you have to move on and deal with it. If you can salvage the marriage I recommend that.

    I believe in basing a relationship out of trust. That is a big deal... I think it is really hard to move on when you know you can't trust someone. The only way to know how to go forward, is to assess her as a person and the overall situation. We won't ever know this part to give you good advice.
    That is really good advise, and I truely appreciate it!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vitruvian-Man View Post
    Actually it sounds to me like you've got some insecurity issues.

    From the sounds of it you are just upset because you aren't the only one who tapped that ass. That's awfully controlling.

    Let me repeat: get over it and move on. it means nothing in the long run.

    Wipe away the tears, go give your daughter a hug, and forgive your wife. It will be the best decision of your life.
    I'm guessing that you've never put so much faith into a person, and then you find out that they have been lieing to you about something you've known for the majority of the time you've known them?

    Beleive me man, there isn't anything else that I want then to forget about it and move on, but the problem is I can't even look at her. I remember about a year ago I asked her what really happened that night, and she started crying and asking me why I just don't believer her when she says nothing happened that night, she said I was making her feel like a whore. I felt so bad, but the part is I was right.

    I'm not an insecure guy by any means, it is hard to accept when you've thought for 8 years that you were the only guy to sleep with the women you love, and I"ve always felt something special about that, then you find out that it isn't true.

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    If you guys were broken up and she sleeps with someone then that is NOT cheating!!! Who cares if she slept with other people? Chances are that if she has only been with you then she will get curious and possibly cheat. Why should she have even told you about this? It really doesn't change who she is.

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    [QUOTE=PistolPete33;4876605]If you guys were broken up and she sleeps with someone then that is NOT cheating!!!QUOTE]

    Do you really believe this in this situation. The reason we broke up was because she hooked up with this guy when we were together. Then sleeped with him right after we broke up.

    But again, her sleeping with someone else isn't the big issue, it is her lieing to me about it for so many years.

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