My wife just told me she sleeped with someone else?

[Vitruvian-Man]

I think you're insane.

You're talking about ruining a stable family, and ruining a young girl's adolescent life.

Grow up, and grow a pair for God's sake.

She didn't want to tell you because she was probably terrified of what you would say!

That only attests to how much of judgmental person you must be.

Go to marriage counseling if you can't deal with the "harsh" reality that your wife slept like ONE person... over 8 bloody YEARS ago... and kept it from you out of fear for your relationship, and family.

I think this is one of the most ludicrous things I've ever heard: "If she would've just told me then, yes maybe we wouldn't be together now, but I would've had the opportunity to choose then if I wanted to be with her or not."

You sound like a really, really caring father.

Crazy!!!!

[DS21]

I think you're insane.

You're talking about ruining a stable family, and ruining a young girl's adolescent life.

Grow up, and grow a pair for God's sake.

She didn't want to tell you because she was probably terrified of what you would say!

That only attests to how much of judgmental person you must be.

Go to marriage counseling if you can't deal with the "harsh" reality that your wife slept like ONE person... over 8 bloody YEARS ago... and kept it from you out of fear for your relationship, and family.

I think this is one of the most ludicrous things I've ever heard: "If she would've just told me then, yes maybe we wouldn't be together now, but I would've had the opportunity to choose then if I wanted to be with her or not."

You sound like a really, really caring father.

Crazy!!!!

You are just stupid. Again the cheating/sleeping with someone else hurts, but the hard part to get past is the lieing. I am very big when it comes to being honest, and now I will question everything she has or dose from here on out. Have you ever been in a relationship for over 6 months? Relationships are built on trust, IMO, and now the trust part is out the window, because she lied to me about something I knew she did.