Need advice on finding a gf

[rockinred]

Here's the problem ladeum... you don't have to think about acting a certain way. Like you stated, "I don't know how to go about that"... there is no set way in picking up a girl. There is no miraculous punch line that works on every person.

What you need to do is be yourself and know that that is enough. You need to build your confidence up to. It is one thing to be a quiet or shy person and another thing to not have confidence. Just be sincere and talk... with a warm smile and not some lusty drooling person who can only think about getting in her pants. That will be the biggest turn off to a girl.

Just be yourself bro and relaxed. If you guys hit it off and click, then cool. If not then oh well, there is plenty of fish in the sea as they say. Also, I would just make small talk and not try and be a pick up line....

[laduem88]

Here's the problem ladeum... you don't have to think about acting a certain way. Like you stated, "I don't know how to go about that"... there is no set way in picking up a girl. There is no miraculous punch line that works on every person.

What you need to do is be yourself and know that that is enough. You need to build your confidence up to. It is one thing to be a quiet or shy person and another thing to not have confidence. Just be sincere and talk... with a warm smile and not some lusty drooling person who can only think about getting in her pants. That will be the biggest turn off to a girl.

Just be yourself bro and relaxed. If you guys hit it off and click, then cool. If not then oh well, there is plenty of fish in the sea as they say. Also, I would just make small talk and not try and be a pick up line....

yea i agree, i would never use a pick up line, im not dumb...i just have a fear of rejection. Which i think is from when i use to be fat

[RuhlFreak55]

Here's the problem ladeum... you don't have to think about acting a certain way. Like you stated, "I don't know how to go about that"... there is no set way in picking up a girl. There is no miraculous punch line that works on every person.

What you need to do is be yourself and know that that is enough. You need to build your confidence up to. It is one thing to be a quiet or shy person and another thing to not have confidence. Just be sincere and talk... with a warm smile and not some lusty drooling person who can only think about getting in her pants. That will be the biggest turn off to a girl.

Just be yourself bro and relaxed. If you guys hit it off and click, then cool. If not then oh well, there is plenty of fish in the sea as they say. Also, I would just make small talk and not try and be a pick up line....

rofl....i'm not gonna lie...i prolly do that