So I bumped into this hot married patient at the club....

[stack_it]

Exactly. I used to have severe issues with getting women, no confidence at all. Bodybuilding gave me a bigger sense of self worth and I noticed I'd get stares. I still didn't talk to women much at all, even with that. I was self conscious. I got over it, would strike up conversations with ALL women, all kinds. I'd tease them in a non threatening way. You gotta make YOURSELF the prize. NOT them. You honestly have to BELIEVE that the woman is missing out on the greatest thing in the world by not getting you. When that happens, you get this thing called "Fvck it" in your system. You can go on a puss pounding rampage forever with that kind of attitude. You end up learning to welcome rejection and brush it off like its no big deal.

Very well said. A lot of times brushing off the rejection changes the outlook of the girl rejecting. Like you said it's all about being the prize not looking for it.

[RyanRoss]

Very well said. A lot of times brushing off the rejection changes the outlook of the girl rejecting. Like you said it's all about being the prize not looking for it.

My lady had me in tears yesterday...She was deleting messages out of her blackberry because it was getting full. She's like, "You know....2 years ago, you talked to me alot differently then you do now." I'm like, whatcha mean? "She goes....well, you always were hanging around a bunch of girls..and always told me to look respectable, and called me short bus! Now you're so sweet to me..what was up with you then?" I said oh you know, game playing. The guy way. You know, kind of like women do...She said "you guys play games worse!" I said nah not all guys, just me

[stack_it]

My lady had me in tears yesterday...She was deleting messages out of her blackberry because it was getting full. She's like, "You know....2 years ago, you talked to me alot differently then you do now." I'm like, whatcha mean? "She goes....well, you always were hanging around a bunch of girls..and always told me to look respectable, and called me short bus! Now you're so sweet to me..what was up with you then?" I said oh you know, game playing. The guy way. You know, kind of like women do...She said "you guys play games worse!" I said nah not all guys, just me

If you know how to play the game you get the girl.

[Hazard]

it's all about being the prize not looking for it.

x10.....

~Haz~

[thegodfather]

1. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Theres a chance you will be married some day, would you want someone doing that to your wife, whether or not she played along or not?

2. You crossed a very serious ETHICAL BOUNDARY. If you were her DMD/DDS you could have your license suspended and/or completely revoked by the board for that behavior. I don't know what kind of certifications you get for dental assisting, but I imagine you could lose your cert in much the same manner. Even worse that you're doing this in your fathers practice.

3. To give some more detail on my previous point, in many states you can be sent to jail for having intimate relations with patients, students(even if of legal age), etc. The reason being, is that in the eyes of the law you are in a serious position of power or influence and they look at you different than they would an ordinary person in another situation. You can get jail time for this in some states, check your state laws. It's a serious abuse of the doctor/patient relationship.

Very irresponsible behavior on your part. Take that as a lesson learned and do not ever do it again, if you're smart.