Your gay.
Only on friday nights.
A week as long as diet and cardio are in check.
Nope, i haven't.
He is
yes
neither have been proven.
true, been there.
bloated
Your gay.
Only on friday nights.
A week as long as diet and cardio are in check.
Nope, i haven't.
He is
yes
neither have been proven.
true, been there.
bloated
How many times have you been asked the same question here?
buckle up buttercup, you're in a for a good ol fashion behind the back western style hand job
European Grip
who are you?
How does jbm find the time to post all these pics?
Will I do well on my finals in 2 weeks?
what is your name?
dsm do black guys really have bigger man hood then whites or is that a myth
lol u can call him anything u want just dont call him late to be in bed with u
Do you spit or swallow?
lol he gulps takes to long to swallow
Do you like guys that shoot ropes aka big loads like Peter North?
38-YEAR-OLD GAY VIRGIN
QUESTION
Hi Dr K. I always read your column and appreciate what I learn. Now I have a problem. I have been a sexually active gay man for ten years now. As a child of the eighties, I had a morbid fear of HIV and it postponed my coming out and also resulted in my choosing to not practice anal sex for years. I recently decided that I now want to try bottoming, and therein lies the problem. In foreplay, my sexual partner has been patient and used lots of lube and fingers. But, my inner ring (is that the right term?) is tight and impassible no matter what. How can I overcome this? A friend suggested poppers/rush to relax my muscles or drugs to redirect my mind... but drugs aren't for me. I have tried with several different experienced partners over the last year and all say they have never experienced this degree of tightness before. Please help me. I feel really stupid as a 38-year-old gay virgin.
ANSWER
That's a tough issue since most anuses will slowly expand with lots of lubrication, use of lubricated condoms and increasing size from fingers to penis. It may be an issue of relaxation and your continued efforts to find a way to relax—massage, warmth, etc.—that is not dependent on drugs. It also may be that you are trying to have anal sex, an intimate physical activity, before you feel intimate enough with your partners to fully relax. What intimate enough means is up to you, but time can definitely bring people closer. Many people have also said that having an orgasm first, before being penetrated anally, helps them relax enough so that their partners can get all the way in.
thats hot
dsm y do woman find 2 guys doing it with each other a turn off but when guys see 2 chicks doing each other thats cool?
DSM do you like Morrissey ?
what do u think of Allen Iverson coming back?
Do you need a room mate?
If my girl and her friends were to go to Philly this weekend what would be the safest area for them to stay ?
What would b the best mall to do christmas shopping and
Could you confirm an adress is valid if I provide it to you ?
The police are uptight I have been fined for sneezing at the mall...lol!
Last edited by BEER WHORE; 12-04-2009 at 05:52 AM. Reason: my boo drunk type
When you say coming to Philly do you mean the city? A lot of people like to go to south street and walk from shop to shop. I like oxford valley mall which is outside the city.
If it's a persons address no I won't probe it.
Nope. If I did would you be my room mate?
they are going to the city, some ppl told them that as long as they stay downtown is all good, is it true?
they are going cause not too long ago they went to miami, and my gf's friend met a guy there and they liked each other, and she was going to go see him alone but my gf and her friends didnt let her for obvious reasons, but when u say u wont prove it is because u dont to private ppl's address or because there is no way to confirm it? if so what about u beer whore? im just wanting them to b safe
Willni say downtown is safe? No.
People who know the city know that you can be in a safe area then walk 3 blocks the wrong way and be in a very dangerous area.
DSM, I've been re-united with my high school love a.k.a. my first for the past 4 months. She is a widow with a daughter, I am gonna meet her daughter for the 1st time this week. In your opinion, should I bring a small gift along with dinner or just wait for X-mas for the gift?
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