Divorce help!

[wharton]

But wouldn't you agree that this issue (as shown above) has worth within our community? "Putting shoes on" and sticking a needle in yourself isn't really a fare comparison, all I'm saying.

Yea they have a place in the comedy section of the forum were we can point and laugh at them.

[Yashp]

One thing is to be on the juice, another thing is to go behind someone's back. It's difficult to give an exact reason as to why she reacts the way she does, but if someone went behind my back and took something I would define as lethal, i.e. the media, I'd be pretty pissed as well.

Try and calm her down, explain to her that you wanted to keep her out of it because you were aware of the way she'd react. If she's the love of your life then I'd stress you to give up the juice until you've smoothen things out, because you'll likely end up very sad.

This is not a situation about who's right or not, she's threatening to leave you because of it, so act accordingly - even though she might be overreacting.

[El Corvino]

Yea they have a place in the comedy section of the forum were we can point and laugh at them.

different people have different situation. Your situation allows you to do what ever you want obviously.

I could be an advanced body builder of X years but if my girl told me in all seriousness that she would leave me and never come back if I ever pinned I would never think about touching it. Luckily, I am in the situation where I run things and I like to give her the choice but ultimately she leaves it to me. You on the other hand obviously don't care and will run the situation no matter what.

Not saying my way is right or yours is. Some people beleive in a 50/50 split. This isn't a counseling service, but since we are all part of the community and are very familiar with it, we should be able to give him some advice to help a non beleiver better understand.

And actually, during my first cycle, near week 8 (of 12 weeks) she told me she wanted me to come off and not touch it again for what ever reason. I explained to her the dangers of not sticking to a game plan and told her after week 12 I would start my PCT and it would be my last. After a few weeks for what ever she was freaking out about, she appoligized and said she was cool with it.

[wharton]

different people have different situation. Your situation allows you to do what ever you want obviously.

I could be an advanced body builder of X years but if my girl told me in all seriousness that she would leave me and never come back if I ever pinned I would never think about touching it. Luckily, I am in the situation where I run things and I like to give her the choice but ultimately she leaves it to me. You on the other hand obviously don't care and will run the situation no matter what.

Not saying my way is right or yours is. Some people beleive in a 50/50 split. This isn't a counseling service, but since we are all part of the community and are very familiar with it, we should be able to give him some advice to help a non beleiver better understand.

Wouldnt the advice be to get a better women who understands your goals and supports you in every situation you have in your life and not limit you and hold you back. Onwards and upwards and not get dragged downwards or kept average by someone elses views?

[El Corvino]

Wouldnt the advice be to get a better women who understands your goals and supports you in every situation you have in your life and not limit you and hold you back. Onwards and upwards and not get dragged downwards or kept average by someone elses views?

Damn... can't even argue that. haha

[wharton]

Damn... can't even argue that. haha

Fun this init lol

[Hazard]

Wouldnt the advice be to get a better women who understands your goals and supports you in every situation you have in your life and not limit you and hold you back. Onwards and upwards and not get dragged downwards or kept average by someone elses views?

I totally agree..... however..... my personal situation is different.

I was using steroids before I was dating my wife..... she was actually injecting me at one point. Once we got married..... she pulled a 180 on me and became anti-steroid. I've had the "I was like this when you met me" discussion but it doesn't matter..... as we all know women are always right.

Come to find out..... my wife is just insecure and thinks if I get bigger..... more women will want me..... and that i'll stray. She admitted it and theres no changing her mind..... so what do i do? I don't tell her I'm on gear...... she KNOWS I am but she can't prove it. I live with constant comments about my size and it's wearing us down as a couple..... but i'm not giving it up.

~Haz~

[bjpennnn]

I totally agree..... however..... my personal situation is different.

I was using steroids before I was dating my wife..... she was actually injecting me at one point. Once we got married..... she pulled a 180 on me and became anti-steroid. I've had the "I was like this when you met me" discussion but it doesn't matter..... as we all know women are always right.

Come to find out..... my wife is just insecure and thinks if I get bigger..... more women will want me..... and that i'll stray. She admitted it and theres no changing her mind..... so what do i do? I don't tell her I'm on gear...... she KNOWS I am but she can't prove it. I live with constant comments about my size and it's wearing us down as a couple..... but i'm not giving it up.

~Haz~

how can you lie when your balls are tiny on cycle?

[Hazard]

how can you lie when your balls are tiny on cycle?

HCG lol

~Haz~

[bjpennnn]

HCG lol

~Haz~

does that keep them fat enough?

[Mooseman33]

I totally agree..... however..... my personal situation is different.

I was using steroids before I was dating my wife..... she was actually injecting me at one point. Once we got married..... she pulled a 180 on me and became anti-steroid. I've had the "I was like this when you met me" discussion but it doesn't matter..... as we all know women are always right.

Come to find out..... my wife is just insecure and thinks if I get bigger..... more women will want me..... and that i'll stray. She admitted it and theres no changing her mind..... so what do i do? I don't tell her I'm on gear...... she KNOWS I am but she can't prove it. I live with constant comments about my size and it's wearing us down as a couple..... but i'm not giving it up.

~Haz~

as we have talked, our woman our almost one in the same.
Woman are fvking nuts, mine new what i was about, then all of a sudden she deemed them as evil. fvking bitch would pin me also..
long story short, we seperated cause of this and many other differences( steroids/ guns) if ur wife is against it, do not think u will be able to hide, either tell her or move on..

and if she is bi-polar, tell her ur going to store and never go back.....u will thank me in the long run..

[SunHangDo]

I totally agree..... however..... my personal situation is different.

I was using steroids before I was dating my wife..... she was actually injecting me at one point. Once we got married..... she pulled a 180 on me and became anti-steroid. I've had the "I was like this when you met me" discussion but it doesn't matter..... as we all know women are always right.

Come to find out..... my wife is just insecure and thinks if I get bigger..... more women will want me..... and that i'll stray. She admitted it and theres no changing her mind..... so what do i do? I don't tell her I'm on gear...... she KNOWS I am but she can't prove it. I live with constant comments about my size and it's wearing us down as a couple..... but i'm not giving it up.

~Haz~

Your mistake here was getting married.

Tell me...WHY get married?

No, seriously. What reason do you have to get married? What do you get out of the deal? Anything? Anything at all?


Listen, if it were me, I'd say, "Alright honey, if you're going to throw away our marriage over something as silly as me doing steroids, then maybe I picked the wrong woman to marry." At this point, she will go apeshit, and use every trick in the book to guilt you back into doing what she wants. But right now, she is using the whole "divorce" nonsense to control you.

What's next man? Is she going to threaten you with divorce every time she doesn't want you to do something? She's using this to control you, not out of concern for you or your health, but out of her own selfishness and insecurity.

So flip it around on her. Tell her if she wants to walk because of it, then walk. But you'll be so big, you won't have any trouble finding a new woman anyways. Again, if you actually tell her this, she will put on a big show. She'll scream and cry and throw a fit like a child. She'll probably even pretend to leave. But in a day or two, she'll be calling you up, asking for forgiveness. At that point, she will be sane enough to sit down with you, and let you explain to her how steroids work, and why it is okay for you to take them.


Give a woman an inch, and they'll take a mile. It's like baby sitting a kid. If they see they can get away with something once, they will use it against you time and time again. Trust me man, I've been through this sort of thing with women many times before. I know how it works.

[Someguy123]

Your mistake here was getting married.

Tell me...WHY get married?

No, seriously. What reason do you have to get married? What do you get out of the deal? Anything? Anything at all?


Listen, if it were me, I'd say, "Alright honey, if you're going to throw away our marriage over something as silly as me doing steroids, then maybe I picked the wrong woman to marry." At this point, she will go apeshit, and use every trick in the book to guilt you back into doing what she wants. But right now, she is using the whole "divorce" nonsense to control you.

What's next man? Is she going to threaten you with divorce every time she doesn't want you to do something? She's using this to control you, not out of concern for you or your health, but out of her own selfishness and insecurity.

So flip it around on her. Tell her if she wants to walk because of it, then walk. But you'll be so big, you won't have any trouble finding a new woman anyways. Again, if you actually tell her this, she will put on a big show. She'll scream and cry and throw a fit like a child. She'll probably even pretend to leave. But in a day or two, she'll be calling you up, asking for forgiveness. At that point, she will be sane enough to sit down with you, and let you explain to her how steroids work, and why it is okay for you to take them.


Give a woman an inch, and they'll take a mile. It's like baby sitting a kid. If they see they can get away with something once, they will use it against you time and time again. Trust me man, I've been through this sort of thing with women many times before. I know how it works.

the funny thing is. you are 100% right. women are just batsh!t crazy in general, and what you describe is how ive seen almost every GF ive had, act. its like training a dog. you need to let it know from day one, who is boss. if you let them piss, and sh!t on the carpet once. theyll do it forever.

i dont really know if thats what this guys problem is. but if it is, its probably too late, since he has been married for awhile.

[darkcrayz]

Wouldnt the advice be to get a better women who understands your goals and supports you in every situation you have in your life and not limit you and hold you back. Onwards and upwards and not get dragged downwards or kept average by someone elses views?

thank you, that was an excellent response.