Quote Originally Posted by ReX357 View Post
Had one without a father too and she ended up destroying my whole life. Please leave right now. Do not counsel. It does not work. She will not change, I can guarantee it. I have been through the same stuff you have been through, the same thoughts and the same situation. It ended up destroying my whole life in the end, bankruptcy included.

Society is teaching the modern man to be caring, understanding, trying to please the woman and fulfill her every need. It is the very reason most marriages are failing nowadays.

Men have to be men.

From now on, please remember this:

There is no such thing as equality between sexes. That's complete bullsh*t. Nature made it so there was a dominant sex that would lead the way for populations to survive. And here's my tips on how to achieve that dominance:

Anytime a woman tells you to do something, refuse to do it. That's gotta be done from the start of the relationship, from the very first time you meet her. Right away, the woman will understand that you're not the kind of chump she can step on. Also, get her to do stuff all the time. That will give her a purpose in your life as well as asserting your dominant role in the relationship. Remember she has to be a part of your life, not the other way around.

One thing about negotiations I learned is this: To win negotiations, you have to be willing to walk away. The willingness to walk away from a deal gives you the upper hand. The woman has to feel that if she doesn't comply, she will lose the greatest man in the world (= YOU).

She doesn't want to put out? No big deal. There's another one waiting one call away. Make sure she knows it too. My way of saying it is: "I don't have to fight for sex. If you don't wanna put out, it's fine I got another one waiting." Say it with a smile on your face like it doesn't bother you.

I could go on about women psychology but I'll stop here...

Yes, be a d*ck. Is this mind control? F*cking right it is! Will you ever have trouble with women again? Not very much probably. Will you get everything you want from a woman (anal sex included)? Pretty good chance!
My big mistake was getting married (going exclusive rather). For the 15 years prior to this I had a rotating string of one night stands, bootie calls, non exclusive (at least for me) sex partners, etc. Women were a dime a dozen.

When I started I used to go out and talk to at least 20 woman a day. Then I started hitting on 20 women a day, and for me 'hitting on' meant sex THAT DAY, none of this phone number bullshit.

I had rules

1. Only date women u are already ****ing.
2. Never pay for (as in a drink, club entrance, dinner, a cup of coffee lol) any woman that you are not already ****ing!

I probably got laid a couple dozen times because a women would come over to me and ask me to buy her a drink and I would look her square in the eye and say.....
"I only buy drinks for women I am already ****ing."

Following those 2 simple rules will solve 99% of all single males problems.

I had mad skills, I have friend who are wealthy today because they travel the world to teach shy guys how to pick up chicks. I have a friend who wrote a book about it. One of the dicks even had 2 reality shows, I never cared for him but we came up at the same time. We all belonged to a small internet discussion group we would compare notes, ideas, strategies, successes, failures, post reports and let others critique. I dropped out when the guys started going public wanting to meet up and teach the shit and have their names and faces known, etc. I value my anonymity.

It will be a little tough to get back into the swing of things after 7 years of exclusive/married life, but I got skills bro, and I am gonna get them up and running after I get divorced u better believe that. I was happier single. I was never miserable single. Sometimes I was in bla mode, but that was as bad as it got... and i had a cure for that every weekend!