Getting divorced

[calgarian]

Ok I am no expert i divorce but here is my 2 cents.....Part of you dont want to let go of her....where reality is ITS OVER....The only thing I be worried about is getting my child back NO MAN can love my child like I do.....I get she is smoking hot and have implants....so what ?some women are keeper and some arent. She isnt one of them. If she doesnt appreciate what you did for her 9 years why would that make a difference now? Move on get your child back rest of the stuff will sort itself out...

I apologize if I come a little strong but when the kid is involve I kinda get emotional.

[D3m3nt3d]

Ok I am no expert i divorce but here is my 2 cents.....Part of you dont want to let go of her....where reality is ITS OVER....The only thing I be worried about is getting my child back NO MAN can love my child like I do.....I get she is smoking hot and have implants....so what ?some women are keeper and some arent. She isnt one of them. If she doesnt appreciate what you did for her 9 years why would that make a difference now? Move on get your child back rest of the stuff will sort itself out...

I apologize if I come a little strong but when the kid is involve I kinda get emotional.

Make no mistake about it. She has always thought she was hot shit, and the implants have made her worse. She got them when she was with her ex, not me. But up until our engagement was broke off, I was the only other person she had been with except him. Truth be told, her moms the same way and she is following in her footsteps. She broke off our engagement and was running around with her still legally married husband! Of course she lied to me about nothing happened. I know she did. Truth is she has been around, and Im sure more than I know.

I am going to try and get my child. I do not want her to model herself after my wife by no means. I want whats best for her, and not seeing her is putting me in a state of serious depression.
I believe my wifes life has been very affected by her mother, and though she always said she didn't want to end up like her, she is heading down that way. Hell she had to quit talking to her mom to get back with me.My wife has "daddy issues" as she has only met hers once, so she is attracted to guys with kids. I don't know how much I have to go on to get custody, but I know I can tell you this much:

Her mom - married and divorced 3 times, 3 kids, 3 different fathers. Engaged I dont know how many more times

my wife - 26 yrs old, married and divorced 2 times (soon to be), 2 kids, 2 different fathers, pregnant 2 other times, in which she had a miscarriage once, then an abortion.

I am just a lot more stable than she is, and so is my family. I do have another child by another woman, other than that I have never been married, was engaged in which that ended as well to no fault of my own. Turns out her and my wife are alot alike, I see that now. I come from a great background, my parents just celebrated their 46th anniversary. I did not pull out of my marriage, I stayed committed no matter how she shit on me, until I seen what I seen and I told her she wants her divorce, she can have it. But deep inside it kills me. I wanted out of my marriage what any person would want, wife and kids. I just can't believe this girl who I seen as my best friend and love of my life, turned like this and can show no caring or compassion whatsoever for me.
She literally just started showing a loss of interest, and wasn't happy anymore. Blamed it on I should do more to help her? Are you kidding me? So, I ran around like a slave trying to make her happy, well she sat and told me nothing was good enough. It may end up being a blessing.

[calgarian]

Make no mistake about it. She has always thought she was hot shit, and the implants have made her worse. She got them when she was with her ex, not me. But up until our engagement was broke off, I was the only other person she had been with except him. Truth be told, her moms the same way and she is following in her footsteps. She broke off our engagement and was running around with her still legally married husband! Of course she lied to me about nothing happened. I know she did. Truth is she has been around, and Im sure more than I know.

I am going to try and get my child. I do not want her to model herself after my wife by no means. I want whats best for her, and not seeing her is putting me in a state of serious depression.
I believe my wifes life has been very affected by her mother, and though she always said she didn't want to end up like her, she is heading down that way. Hell she had to quit talking to her mom to get back with me.My wife has "daddy issues" as she has only met hers once, so she is attracted to guys with kids. I don't know how much I have to go on to get custody, but I know I can tell you this much:

Her mom - married and divorced 3 times, 3 kids, 3 different fathers. Engaged I dont know how many more times

my wife - 26 yrs old, married and divorced 2 times (soon to be), 2 kids, 2 different fathers, pregnant 2 other times, in which she had a miscarriage once, then an abortion.

I am just a lot more stable than she is, and so is my family. I do have another child by another woman, other than that I have never been married, was engaged in which that ended as well to no fault of my own. Turns out her and my wife are alot alike, I see that now. I come from a great background, my parents just celebrated their 46th anniversary. I did not pull out of my marriage, I stayed committed no matter how she shit on me, until I seen what I seen and I told her she wants her divorce, she can have it. But deep inside it kills me. I wanted out of my marriage what any person would want, wife and kids. I just can't believe this girl who I seen as my best friend and love of my life, turned like this and can show no caring or compassion whatsoever for me.
She literally just started showing a loss of interest, and wasn't happy anymore. Blamed it on I should do more to help her? Are you kidding me? So, I ran around like a slave trying to make her happy, well she sat and told me nothing was good enough. It may end up being a blessing.

There is an old sayin gin East indian Culture...."You dont marry one person you marry the Family". I know why u want it to work cause thats how u have seen ur parents and all the ppl in your family...Just another piece of advise next time get the girl with a good family background and make sure ur kid doesnt follow her Mom's step...

For you she was love of ur life but for her you were just a step to get her going where she wanted to go.....I personally know a girl here who thinks who is the hot shit and have 3 divorces under her belt and still thinks that she will get anyman she wants....well most ppl think of her as a slut....the girls who think they are hot keep forgetting one thing all the Men who think they are hot wants...just want to fvck them and thats all they want to do with them.

Bro...let her go..take care of ur kid. Time is the biggest medicine of all. u gotta keep it together for your kid.

[Shinalynn]

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I just can't believe this girl who I seen as my best friend and love of my life, turned like this and can show no caring or compassion whatsoever for me.
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This happens so much, and it sucks. My fav sayin finding someone for the rest of your life is alot harder than it looks.