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    Ok I would like to point out one thing.. YOU have NOT been there emotionally for her. Women are emotional, you left that door open when you walked out, someone else walked in. The only way she can change is if you become her best friend again.
    Not to go against every one on the board, however I am more of support your decision on this matter type of person. So If you want it to work out, look at where it went wrong, cause and effect sweetheart. Not blaming you in anyway just looking at where this all started.
    I have this saying, and I say it every time I am feeling, alone.. IF you dont pay attention to me, someone else will.
    BTW I am not saying that what she did was right in ANY way.

    Give her the attention, dont give her time to text someone else. OH and my last piece of advice..MOVE! LOL

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shinalynn View Post
    Ok I would like to point out one thing.. YOU have NOT been there emotionally for her. Women are emotional, you left that door open when you walked out, someone else walked in. The only way she can change is if you become her best friend again.
    Not to go against every one on the board, however I am more of support your decision on this matter type of person. So If you want it to work out, look at where it went wrong, cause and effect sweetheart. Not blaming you in anyway just looking at where this all started.
    I have this saying, and I say it every time I am feeling, alone.. IF you dont pay attention to me, someone else will.
    BTW I am not saying that what she did was right in ANY way.

    Give her the attention, dont give her time to text someone else. OH and my last piece of advice..MOVE! LOL
    Yah Im gonna give it one more shot cause I love her so much. And if it works out moving to a small town of no more than 10 people sounds fine

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    Quote Originally Posted by Stigmata101 View Post
    Yah Im gonna give it one more shot cause I love her so much. And if it works out moving to a small town of no more than 10 people sounds fine
    ok u want to do it go for it...but remember if it still doesnt workout u walk away.....I hope and prey to God it will but my gut tell me something else.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shinalynn View Post
    Ok I would like to point out one thing.. YOU have NOT been there emotionally for her. Women are emotional, you left that door open when you walked out, someone else walked in. The only way she can change is if you become her best friend again.
    Not to go against every one on the board, however I am more of support your decision on this matter type of person. So If you want it to work out, look at where it went wrong, cause and effect sweetheart. Not blaming you in anyway just looking at where this all started.
    I have this saying, and I say it every time I am feeling, alone.. IF you dont pay attention to me, someone else will.
    BTW I am not saying that what she did was right in ANY way.

    Give her the attention, dont give her time to text someone else. OH and my last piece of advice..MOVE! LOL
    Sorry but you forgot the love!!!

    If you love someone you do not stop loving because your partner is emotionally faraway from you. In case, it is the opposite; you get more dependent from that lack of emotions.

    Love = Respect

    If respect is missing, so love does.
    Last edited by BJJ; 07-28-2010 at 10:42 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BJJ View Post
    Sorry but you forgot the love!!!

    If you love someone you do not stop loving because your partner is emotionally faraway from you. In case, it is the opposite; you get more dependent from that lack of emotions.

    Love = Respect

    If respect is missing, so love does.
    Your right, she still loves him. Just not in love with him. A person can fall out of love just as fast as they fell in love, but still HAVE love for the other person. Its just a matter of effort to get back into love. you get more dependent from that lack of emotions. your right, but now she is more dependent on someone else.. Dont you see? If he wants it to work, he needs to be the one she depends on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shinalynn View Post
    Your right, she still loves him. Just not in love with him. A person can fall out of love just as fast as they fell in love, but still HAVE love for the other person. Its just a matter of effort to get back into love. you get more dependent from that lack of emotions. your right, but now she is more dependent on someone else.. Dont you see? If he wants it to work, he needs to be the one she depends on.
    Even though she is married to him he should compete with that ass clown to get her back into his life as his wife???
    so just because he loves her he should be her bitch "what u need baby" "is there anything i can do for you"?.......Sorry if I misunderstood but to me no pvssy worth that much I learned the hard way.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shinalynn View Post
    Your right, she still loves him. Just not in love with him. A person can fall out of love just as fast as they fell in love, but still HAVE love for the other person. Its just a matter of effort to get back into love. you get more dependent from that lack of emotions. your right, but now she is more dependent on someone else.. Dont you see? If he wants it to work, he needs to be the one she depends on.
    sorry dear, but best to give the marriage guidence a miss.........

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shinalynn View Post
    Ok I would like to point out one thing.. YOU have NOT been there emotionally for her. Women are emotional, you left that door open when you walked out, someone else walked in. The only way she can change is if you become her best friend again.
    Not to go against every one on the board, however I am more of support your decision on this matter type of person. So If you want it to work out, look at where it went wrong, cause and effect sweetheart. Not blaming you in anyway just looking at where this all started.
    I have this saying, and I say it every time I am feeling, alone.. IF you dont pay attention to me, someone else will.
    BTW I am not saying that what she did was right in ANY way.

    Give her the attention, dont give her time to text someone else. OH and my last piece of advice..MOVE! LOL
    this is bullshit, if your married and supposidly love someone, you take the rough with the smooth, if things are that unbearable, you walk away, you dont do the dirt period.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shinalynn View Post
    Ok I would like to point out one thing.. YOU have NOT been there emotionally for her. Women are emotional, you left that door open when you walked out, someone else walked in. The only way she can change is if you become her best friend again.
    Not to go against every one on the board, however I am more of support your decision on this matter type of person. So If you want it to work out, look at where it went wrong, cause and effect sweetheart. Not blaming you in anyway just looking at where this all started.
    I have this saying, and I say it every time I am feeling, alone.. IF you dont pay attention to me, someone else will. BTW I am not saying that what she did was right in ANY way.

    Give her the attention, dont give her time to text someone else. OH and my last piece of advice..MOVE! LOL
    right love, this is the bit that troubles me, why post that? complete BS, now with regards to my reading skills, i think they are pretty much ok
    Last edited by dec11; 07-28-2010 at 11:16 AM.

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