Losing my wife

[MACHINE5150]

I guess I forgot to mention, we did get a marriage counsellor a few days after I went to the hospital.....She said she wants to make it work, and that she loves me but shes not in love with me.

if u want to make this work then you need to make her fall in love with you again.. go on vacation.. or do something random.. bring home roses.. get off work early and make her a nice dinner.. etc etc.. women are crazy, but they are easily entertained if you know what buttons to press.. take a tantric sex class together... or do something constructive together.. something that you can bond together doing.. Marriage is not 50/50... it is 100/100 if you want to make it work you need to go the extra mile to break that mundaness of her life.. she is dissapointed with her life or unhappy for one reason or another and as a result is becoming unfaithful.. it is just something new for her entertainment.. i would not say it is too late to save your marriage

[Shinalynn]

if u want to make this work then you need to make her fall in love with you again.. go on vacation.. or do something random.. bring home roses.. get off work early and make her a nice dinner.. etc etc.. women are crazy, but they are easily entertained if you know what buttons to press.. take a tantric sex class together... or do something constructive together.. something that you can bond together doing.. Marriage is not 50/50... it is 100/100 if you want to make it work you need to go the extra mile to break that mundaness of her life.. she is dissapointed with her life or unhappy for one reason or another and as a result is becoming unfaithful.. it is just something new for her entertainment.. i would not say it is too late to save your marriage

[zimmy]

if u want to make this work then you need to make her fall in love with you again.. go on vacation.. or do something random.. bring home roses.. get off work early and make her a nice dinner.. etc etc.. women are crazy, but they are easily entertained if you know what buttons to press.. take a tantric sex class together... or do something constructive together.. something that you can bond together doing.. Marriage is not 50/50... it is 100/100 if you want to make it work you need to go the extra mile to break that mundaness of her life.. she is dissapointed with her life or unhappy for one reason or another and as a result is becoming unfaithful.. it is just something new for her entertainment.. i would not say it is too late to save your marriage

Yah...that makes since...she is f*cking around on you so romance her more?

It sad because that is the best course of action to salvage your relationship but seriously ... what does that say about women in our society if that is the best course of action.

[lovbyts]

Yah...that makes since...she is f*cking around on you so romance her more?

It sad because that is the best course of action to salvage your relationship but seriously ... what does that say about women in our society if that is the best course of action.

I agree, if all things are equal (They arent) then if she has done wrong SHE needs to make it right; not you kissing her ass to make her feel better about what SHE is doing wrong.

Bring home a hooker (or any girl will do), **** her in your bed and see if your wife tries to make you feel better about the whole thing.

[Stigmata101]

I agree, if all things are equal (They arent) then if she has done wrong SHE needs to make it right; not you kissing her ass to make her feel better about what SHE is doing wrong.

Bring home a hooker (or any girl will do), **** her in your bed and see if your wife tries to make you feel better about the whole thing.

LMFAO....good point. If things don't work out I might actually try that.

[calgarian]

LMFAO....good point. If things don't work out I might actually try that.

no u wont........

[Stigmata101]

no u wont........

your right i won't

[BJJ]

if u want to make this work then you need to make her fall in love with you again.. go on vacation.. or do something random.. bring home roses.. get off work early and make her a nice dinner.. etc etc.. women are crazy, but they are easily entertained if you know what buttons to press.. take a tantric sex class together... or do something constructive together.. something that you can bond together doing.. Marriage is not 50/50... it is 100/100 if you want to make it work you need to go the extra mile to break that mundaness of her life.. she is dissapointed with her life or unhappy for one reason or another and as a result is becoming unfaithful.. it is just something new for her entertainment.. i would not say it is too late to save your marriage

Thank you for letting me read that.
I am also facing a severe time with my wife and I really needed to see what you wrote.

Wise words...

[D3m3nt3d]

if u want to make this work then you need to make her fall in love with you again.. go on vacation.. or do something random.. bring home roses.. get off work early and make her a nice dinner.. etc etc.. women are crazy, but they are easily entertained if you know what buttons to press.. take a tantric sex class together... or do something constructive together.. something that you can bond together doing.. Marriage is not 50/50... it is 100/100 if you want to make it work you need to go the extra mile to break that mundaness of her life.. she is dissapointed with her life or unhappy for one reason or another and as a result is becoming unfaithful.. it is just something new for her entertainment.. i would not say it is too late to save your marriage

Been there and tried all of this. In the end I just looked like an asskisser pretty much minus a few days, and well nobody likes an asskisser,

Sounds good, but I don't think you should have to MAKE your wife fall back in love with you. I feel you should always be great to them, and be the man you promised you would be. If this was enough to get married, why should you have to try and change everything now, just because she decides she wants to drift to another man?

[UberSteroids]

if u want to make this work then you need to make her fall in love with you again.. go on vacation.. or do something random.. bring home roses.. get off work early and make her a nice dinner.. etc etc.. women are crazy, but they are easily entertained if you know what buttons to press.. take a tantric sex class together... or do something constructive together.. something that you can bond together doing.. Marriage is not 50/50... it is 100/100 if you want to make it work you need to go the extra mile to break that mundaness of her life.. she is dissapointed with her life or unhappy for one reason or another and as a result is becoming unfaithful.. it is just something new for her entertainment.. i would not say it is too late to save your marriage

HAhahahha! You are a one crazy SOB! As nice as half of this post sounds... it is mostly BS. Are you really saying that because SHE is unhappy and dissapointed for whatever reasons and a result of this is becoming unfaithful ?!?! Holy sh!t...

If you claim that a marriage is 100/100 then why the F does he have to be jumping around and making her happy, especially that he dones't know exactly what HER problem is? Where is her PART?! You know what mature and quality women do when they are unhappy? They tell what the problem is to THEIR husband, not some piece of sh!t from work. They talk about the problems with their man... in order to solve these issues. You pretty much described a 0/100 relationship... where he is at 100% trying and she is at 0% not giving a F and hooking up with trash from work....haahaahha!

With guys giving advices like yours... Men are doomed!