the girlfriends mom post:

[J-Dogg]

What exactly do you mean by "narcissistic characteristics?"....this is vague for now...please explain why and what types of behavior determined this diagnosis (since you have opened this up for discussion)....perhaps this might help clarify what is beneath some of this....the good and the bad....to help figure out the correct path to take

A lot of people confuse the assessment as someone being vain, but it’s not.
It has little to do with personal appearance, and the characteristics are not all bad.

In short, I think black/white. I tend to have an answer or opinion before the question or statement is even finished.

Assuming your way, or opinion is more valid, or better than others.
It works great for my career, quick choices and confident that they are right.
Bad for relationships for the same reasons.

[ReX357]

A lot of people confuse the assessment as someone being vain, but it’s not.
It has little to do with personal appearance, and the characteristics are not all bad.

In short, I think black/white. I tend to have an answer or opinion before the question or statement is even finished.

Assuming your way, or opinion is more valid, or better than others.
It works great for my career, quick choices and confident that they are right.
Bad for relationships for the same reasons.

Uh-oh, I might have some narcissistic characteristics too then