Does your bed.........................................

[Hazard]

be careful with armchair psychologists! (referring to me.. even dr. phil sucks)

it almost sounds like a situation I was in years ago. This feline had (unknown to me since I was slightly naive) that she had "lubrication" problems, and would get sore long before I could give her the "O" she craved. She too could get off to oral, since no friction, but not the other way. (We were dumb back in those days) So we started experimenting with Vitamin E (too thick, not very water soluable), and moved on to aloa vera (this works, but still isn't ideal). Finally, we worked up the guts to get some KY Jelly. OMG what a difference that made! It was unfukken believable!! As we were doing it, we were lubing up every ten minutes, she wasn't sore any more, bada bing, bada boom and she got her first "missionary" "O".

The biggest issue I hear from you is her willingness and eagerness. She could have some emotional baggage you may or may not know about.

Part of these relationships is they take alot of work! Shit, Haz, me and my woman had sh1t pretty rocky for several years, to where I was thinking I might have to leave. But we kept trying, until everything clicked in place, and right now, for the moment, things couldn't be better.

BTW... my woman got my text, "reminded" me she is that way in the month, texted me back in a friskey kind of way that we could explore other options. That's code for she can pitch, but not receive. Yeah!

yea we use lube when she dries out and it does help..... but she still can't have an orgasm. We've been thinking about spending the dough to get the "G Shot" - it's a collagen injection that pushes the g spot out so it receives more contact during sex. It's expensive so it's not an option at the moment but it's just something we're looking into.

Shes perfectly fine with just having oral orgasms..... it's more me that wants her to have her first vaginal orgasm.....

~Haz~

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yea we use lube when she dries out and it does help..... but she still can't have an orgasm. We've been thinking about spending the dough to get the "G Shot" - it's a collagen injection that pushes the g spot out so it receives more contact during sex. It's expensive so it's not an option at the moment but it's just something we're looking into.

Shes perfectly fine with just having oral orgasms..... it's more me that wants her to have her first vaginal orgasm.....

~Haz~

It's too bad women don't come with an instruction manuel..... Now, if ya need me to help you out, I can come over and show you how to do it! =)


btw.... maybe lubing up a big toy and you working her instead of oral could be a bridge to what you are looking for?

[Hazard]

It's too bad women don't come with an instruction manuel..... Now, if ya need me to help you out, I can come over and show you how to do it! =)


btw.... maybe lubing up a big toy and you working her instead of oral could be a bridge to what you are looking for?

yeah we got those..... the only toy she can stand is the cyberskin dildoe things..... and even then..... she can stand it but she doesn't prefer it. she doesn't like big toys..... she likes skinny ones. Now.... i'm not thick like a can of coke but i'm not a pencil dick by any means LOL..... maybe that could be part of the issue. If it is..... shes just gotta get over it LOLOLOL!

We were talking last night about what feels good and what hurts a little..... doggy is the best feeling for her..... which is fine for me As of late..... her little button has been too sensitive to touch. So no oral orgasms either.....

Idunno man..... shes sexually fvcked up..... sucks. I did talk to her about going to speak with someone..... whether it be a doctor or a sex therapist. She seemed more receptive to it but we both agreed that we need to make sure she doesn't have another cyst on her ovary and that her vagina is in good health before we go any further.

~Haz~

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yeah we got those..... the only toy she can stand is the cyberskin dildoe things..... and even then..... she can stand it but she doesn't prefer it. she doesn't like big toys..... she likes skinny ones. Now.... i'm not thick like a can of coke but i'm not a pencil dick by any means LOL..... maybe that could be part of the issue. If it is..... shes just gotta get over it LOLOLOL!

We were talking last night about what feels good and what hurts a little..... doggy is the best feeling for her..... which is fine for me As of late..... her little button has been too sensitive to touch. So no oral orgasms either.....

Idunno man..... shes sexually fvcked up..... sucks. I did talk to her about going to speak with someone..... whether it be a doctor or a sex therapist. She seemed more receptive to it but we both agreed that we need to make sure she doesn't have another cyst on her ovary and that her vagina is in good health before we go any further.

~Haz~

my woman had issues too for many years. I was always too long for her. would gladly give up about a half inch for extra girth, but not too much else taht would create issues too. then the birth of our son, and the butcher that sewed her back up.... that was painful for at least a year. finally, we got a real soft pink dldo, and with a ton of ky, worked through some issues. all i can say is that it takes awhile. recommend talking to someone. we never did, but i'm sure it would have helped us