Ok well.....
I grilled my girl.. BIG TIME..and guess what

So we went through a rough patch a while ago.. like 1 year ago and she apearently complained to this person about me... (good intuition guys)
Obviously things are good between us now. (really good no joke)
She tells me that she continuously tries to change his feelings about me but it is not working.
There were times where she apparently stopped talking to him and she is approaching another one of those times. (I was obv in the dark about this and I can understand why she wouldn't have told me b/c she knew she should not have done that and she knew I would want to break his spine)

so wtf..