
Originally Posted by
lovbyts
I like the shirt that says:
To all you virgins, thanks for Nothing.
In all seriousness, I think it's personal choice and not a bad idea if you can stick with it and find the right guy. I had a GF for 2 1/2 years who wanted to stay a virgin until she got married. I respected that and never tried to talk her into doing the deed. We did over time explore and had a lot of fun playing.
The only problem I would have is if I was/we where seriously considering getting married and she would do NOTHING then I would be concerned about performance later and it might be a deal breaker if we had been dating a long time.
Now with my GF I was not worried, she wanted to play just as much as me, she was horny and she WANTED to have sex and wanted me to do it several times but not 100%. There were times we ALMOST but I wouldn't and she wouldn't have I think but on my part it would have only taken a push to do the deed. DAMN those where the days. LOL
If you seriously want to be a virgin when you get married once a guy gets pushy about it, tries to get you drunk, says if you love him you will do it; Dump him. If you are just waiting for the right guy and the right time still dont rush it but dont think that sex = marriage and have fun with it and pick someone who will make the first time something to remember. If it's your wedding night I'm sure it will be memorable one way or another.