What do guys think of virgin girls?

[Times Roman]

Before I answer your question luv, why is it precisely, and at your age, that you value your virginity? Health reasons? Religious Reasons? Sex is a normal way adults express physical love and affection, so to not participate, I'm assuming there is some reason why you chose not to?

I'm from California, and married my woman when she was your age. Her virginity, or lack thereof, was never an issue to either of us. I think a large majority of our western society neither places a premium, nor considers a negative, whether or not maintains her virginity until marriage.

[europeangirl]

Before I answer your question luv, why is it precisely, and at your age, that you value your virginity? Health reasons? Religious Reasons? Sex is a normal way adults express physical love and affection, so to not participate, I'm assuming there is some reason why you chose not to?

I'm from California, and married my woman when she was your age. Her virginity, or lack thereof, was never an issue to either of us. I think a large majority of our western society neither places a premium, nor considers a negative, whether or not maintains her virginity until marriage.

I'm just waiting for the right person...is that odd?

[lovbyts]

I'm just waiting for the right person...is that odd?

Well since I'm already getting accused of it I might as well jump in. Here I am, I can be Mr. right or Mr. right now. hahaha J/K

No nothing odd or strange about that. There are plenty of wrong guys out there and far to many girls/women make the wrong choice, especially the first time or are forced into the situation one way or another.

It's good you are waiting until it's right for YOU. Dont worry about what other people say, peer pressure or whatever. Lots of girls/women wish they had waited or made better choices. Good luck and hopefully it will be worth the wait.

[europeangirl]

Well since I'm already getting accused of it I might as well jump in. Here I am, I can be Mr. right or Mr. right now. hahaha J/K

No nothing odd or strange about that. There are plenty of wrong guys out there and far to many girls/women make the wrong choice, especially the first time or are forced into the situation one way or another.

It's good you are waiting until it's right for YOU. Dont worry about what other people say, peer pressure or whatever. Lots of girls/women wish they had waited or made better choices. Good luck and hopefully it will be worth the wait.

wow, thanks! I do get pressured a lot...I've been told by guys that it's not normal to not sleep around because everyone else is doing it and that I'll never fit in if I don't do it. :/

i hope it will be worth the wait too! =)

[lovbyts]

wow, thanks! I do get pressured a lot...I've been told by guys that it's not normal to not sleep around because everyone else is doing it and that I'll never fit in if I don't do it. :/

i hope it will be worth the wait too! =)

Those are the guys to stay away from for sure. Just because everyone was doing coke at a party or ? still doesn't make it a good idea. You get the idea and it sound like you already figured that out.

My GF from LONG time ago has told me many time since how I almost got her in trouble because I was the only guy who never pressured her or tried to trick her into giving it up. She though most all guys where like me, no pressure and understood her. She learned quickly that's not the case.

Yes, we are still friends many years later. Careful with that strong will power, it gets VERY week under the right circumstances...

if he turns out to be the wrong guy, i'll know long before he gets in my pants ^_^

DONT kid yourself with that. You are way to young to know or understand how convincing some people can be and how some people can seem so PERFECT and turn out to be so WRONG. It makes you believe in Evil and possession, no joke. Hopefully you wont experience it but many many have here and will tell you that some people are like Daemon or? and they can seem so so so good but then turn so so so bad.... It's hard to believe but it happens more times than you want to know.
Sorry, I dont mean to scare you only I have heard that far to often and remember believing the same thing. Now I know better and realize that anyone can be fooled...

[europeangirl]

Those are the guys to stay away from for sure. Just because everyone was doing coke at a party or ? still doesn't make it a good idea. You get the idea and it sound like you already figured that out.

My GF from LONG time ago has told me many time since how I almost got her in trouble because I was the only guy who never pressured her or tried to trick her into giving it up. She though most all guys where like me, no pressure and understood her. She learned quickly that's not the case.

Yes, we are still friends many years later. Careful with that strong will power, it gets VERY week under the right circumstances...


DONT kid yourself with that. You are way to young to know or understand how convincing some people can be and how some people can seem so PERFECT and turn out to be so WRONG. It makes you believe in Evil and possession, no joke. Hopefully you wont experience it but many many have here and will tell you that some people are like Daemon or? and they can seem so so so good but then turn so so so bad.... It's hard to believe but it happens more times than you want to know.
Sorry, I dont mean to scare you only I have heard that far to often and remember believing the same thing. Now I know better and realize that anyone can be fooled...

what should I do so I don't get taken advantage of? should i wait until i'm older?

and that's good that you're still friends with that girl! yeah i've been under "circumstances" before... :/ one time this guy pushed me againt a wall and started kissing my neck. then he put his hands in my shirt...and well, you know. i stopped him before he tried to take my shirt off. it all happened so fast. he wasn't happy