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    good luck brother, I'm glad things worked out.

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    Quote Originally Posted by firmechicano831 View Post
    good luck brother, I'm glad things worked out.
    Worked out? I'm getting a divorce. I did the competition, but I did it in spite of the fact that she and about 99% of the people in my life tried to cause problems. I'm starting another chapter in my life right now. Bodybuilding is a passion of mine and is one of the few things that is going to stay a part of my life.

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    Quote Originally Posted by j.daddy View Post
    Worked out? I'm getting a divorce. I did the competition, but I did it in spite of the fact that she and about 99% of the people in my life tried to cause problems. I'm starting another chapter in my life right now. Bodybuilding is a passion of mine and is one of the few things that is going to stay a part of my life.
    Coming from a woman who competes in Figure, I just wanted to wish you the best in pursuing your passion of Bodybuilding. And, just to give you a female perspective, surprisingly I have gone through the same thing and ended a long term relationship due to his inability to support my goals and passion as a competitor. Way I see it, is when it comes down to it, someone who truly loves and cares you will support your passions and goals..PERIOD. Yes, contest prep is FAR from easy, and I admit I become rather intense prior to my shows, but quite frankly I personally separate myself from anyone that will stand in the way of my training or that doesn't understand it. People outside of it do not understand sometimes that this is a lifestyle we choose, and just because they themselves may not choose the same path does not give anyone the right to say what is right or wrong or whether or not it is worth the sacrifices. Fortunately I have made many close friends that are also Figure Competitors and Bodybuilders who can relate to me. Even in regards to dating I tend to stick to guys who are Bodybuilders as I admire and understand what they have to go through during prep, and they too can be patient with me with the mood swings from my diet or and cycles. Wishing you the best in the future and upcoming shows!

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