Ok guys, its a bit late, but i finally have a plan for my diet, please critique where you see fit. 
Meal 1- Breakfast (10.30) 
5 egg whites, 2 yolks, 1 cup of oats, 250ml of milk 
550/40/55/22  (kcal,pro,carbs,fat) 
a good mutli and EFA supp in there aswell!
Meal 2 (pre workout) (12.30)
grilled chicken breast sandwich (whole wheat bread), 1 apple 
500/38/65/8
would prefer brown rice or alternative unprocessed carb source.
Post workout (2.30) 
Whey Protein, 1 cup oats, 1 banana 
400/40/75/10
Meal 3 (3.00)
1 tin of tuna (130g), pasta (1 cup), 
400/30/40/5
some veges in there, broccolli is always gd  
Meal 4 - Dinner (6.00) 
Spaghetti/chicken pasta/chicken and rice, veg (i.e. broccoli)
600/40/80/5
Meal 5 - (just a light meal after dinner) (9.00)
Chicken salad
200/30/5/4
this should a bit more substantial i think, its a good bit before bed so dont worry about carbs or anything, ur bulking. add a bit of good carbs in there
Late Snack (10.30 onwards) 
Protein shake, 500ml milk, cottage cheese (100g) 
350/40/20/11 
is that a casein shake? it should be if it isnt. also you should have some EFA's here.
Total: 3000/258/340/65 in % about 39/51/10 (probably more fat than listed because I doubt it’s this low :P) 
Macros aren’t obviously completely accurate (for each meal proteins and carbs are probably a few off) 
Now I know it should be a 40/40/20 split so as I get into it I will add more protein and drop more carbs to even it out (or do something along those lines). 
Also what is a good source of protein to replace one of the chicken meals (i will occasionally have steak instead sometimes) but instead of this (and tuna), any ideas?
salmon/turkey/eggs/lean ground beef. just a few suggestions. try the recipes forum for more ideas  
Thanks for all the help so far guys.