Been on trt for 4 years now and thinking of getting off. Need questions answered

[Far from massive]

Tassy,

Really sorry to hear the news, hang in there. PS I agree with lovbyts often women do not say what is really going on. Also its been my experience once a women announces to the man that they are through, she has already explored her options and has already implemented an escape plan, so although you love her still do not worry too much about her economic or other survival she probably has that covered. Also be cautious with the zanax, lots of Dr's prescribe it to deal with a patients complaint without considering the long term consequences. Any benzodiazapens use should be temporary to ease you past the current separation issues not a long term treatment option.

[lovbyts]

Tassy,

Really sorry to hear the news, hang in there. PS I agree with lovbyts often women do not say what is really going on. Also its been my experience once a women announces to the man that they are through, she has already explored her options and has already implemented an escape plan, so although you love her still do not worry too much about her economic or other survival she probably has that covered. Also be cautious with the zanax, lots of Dr's prescribe it to deal with a patients complaint without considering the long term consequences. Any benzodiazapens use should be temporary to ease you past the current separation issues not a long term treatment option.

That is true about 80% of the time, women dong jump ship unless they have another ship to jump onto. Sorry to say.

You say it's been 25 years so she is around 45+ Ohhhhh sounds like it could also be Menopause. Thats just as bad because women go more nuts than usual. A FEW realize it and will seek medical help and take medication to stabilize the hormones but most of them; as usually will think nothing is wrong with them and it's all your fault and the rest of the world. Most of them get a hair up their ass to go out and play, to show they still have what it takes even though they dont or at least not what they think they have.

If there is a chance you can talk to her MD to see if he will request blood work for her maybe she will listen to him? Either way you have to look out for #1 and when it comes to $$$$ that is the number one thing women go for. Time to liquidate what you can. Dont do it in a rush, dont make it obvious but dont be foolish thinking it wont happen to you. I have seen it to many times and a good friend of mine took my advice 10 years ago and still thanks me several times a year. LOL