Relationship lulls

[Twist]

It's over. Don't worry about breaking her heart, she broke yours and she doesn't even like you.

[awms]

Communication and compromise are key in a relationship and when these two things break down a relationship often starts to fall apart. A relationship is two sided and im guessing things broke down in your relationship because neither of you are being honest and open with each other? What you need to do is talk about what you both need from each other to make the relationship works...for you it could be more sex and cuddling and for her it could be doing the dishes more often or being more romantic ect ect...doesnt really matter you both need to compromise. Your goal in the relationship should be to try your hardest to make each other happy and bring each other up not down and its hard to do this if you dont know what shes thinking and she doesnt know what your thinking.

Also have some fun! have hobbies together and go on fun dates...somtimes when things become "normal" and have patern they get boring so change it up! try to things in the bedroom ect ect.

[songdog]

Dec 11 Took the words out of my mouth.Sorry Bro nothing like this is easy.But it sounds like the fire is out.Money rings cakes dinners.Wont change anything.The only thing that can help is talking.She maybe depressed.Only commuacation can help you.Good luck.

[PitMaster]

It's over. Don't worry about breaking her heart, she broke yours and she doesn't even like you.

Been together 6 years, I know she still loves me, fire just gone. I can see she still cares in some of the things she does.

[dec11]

Been together 6 years, I know she still loves me, fire just gone. I can see she still cares in some of the things she does.

another view is that the hot sex doesnt last forever in any relationship (ive found anyhow, no matter how stunning she is), it naturally goes off the boil. us geezers are programmed to find new pleasures in new faces, but if ya love someone thats what keeps you from playin away