Relationship lulls

[PitMaster]

i know bud. I left my wife about 10 months ago, I kept hoping things would get better but they didnt. Finally i said enough is enough and moved out. After i got settled in my new place i was like a new man. I looked back and couldn't believe how miserable i was for so long.

Made my heart skip a beat...Man u got some balls. your killin me with that statement. AT some point was there no more humor in each of your lives? I still laugh here and there. I don't wanna maker her out to be the bad guy, I think it's most my fault. I don't even know what to say that statement, u got kids too? I have none.

[gixxerboy1]

Made my heart skip a beat...Man u got some balls. your killin me with that statement. AT some point was there no more humor in each of your lives? I still laugh here and there. I don't wanna maker her out to be the bad guy, I think it's most my fault. I don't even know what to say that statement, u got kids too? I have none.

no kids. Not saying we hated each other. We still spent time together, did stuff together had sex. But we fought or didnt get along more then we did. Not everything was her fault either. But the fights and issues feed off each other. We went to counseling once. Things werent going to get better. So i could have staid and been miserable 25 days a month or leave and be happy 30 days.

i'd have to search on here but i made a thread when i left here. I didnt bad mouth her at all. But it was all saying how much of a difference i can see in myself. And i really didnt even know how miserable i was at the time.

[gixxerboy1]

And you never know what can happen. We didnt see each other once for 6 months after i left. We only talked if we had to about a bill or something. Now we talk and text pretty often and talk as friends. We are living in different states now but we have talked about trying again. So who knows.

[PitMaster]

And you never know what can happen. We didnt see each other once for 6 months after i left. We only talked if we had to about a bill or something. Now we talk and text pretty often and talk as friends. We are living in different states now but we have talked about trying again. So who knows.

Maybe distance is a good thing, I hope u get waht u want , all this sounds so broken hearted to me. I gonna keep this under my hat. she be home in a sec. so i'm changing this page until she crashes. I have much respect for you and your strength and thanks for sharing such personal stuff.

[PitMaster]

no kids. Not saying we hated each other. We still spent time together, did stuff together had sex. But we fought or didnt get along more then we did. Not everything was her fault either. But the fights and issues feed off each other. We went to counseling once. Things werent going to get better. So i could have staid and been miserable 25 days a month or leave and be happy 30 days.

i'd have to search on here but i made a thread when i left here. I didnt bad mouth her at all. But it was all saying how much of a difference i can see in myself. And i really didnt even know how miserable i was at the time.

I see..I would like to read through it. My heart goes out to u man. No small task.