Posting for my husband. He is about to start a cycle of TEST 250...questions please

[floridachick]

You can order BW online if you want to do so. Your husband needs to be much more proactive in this. Why on earth doesn't he get an account here? Sounds silly to me. And are you relaying everything the members are suggesting to him in real time? or are you gradually telling him what to do? Is he one of those guys who has to be told what to do or just down right stubborn. Some men want to be told what to do in every single step of the way. Some are so stubborn it is futile. Which type is he? And are you one who directs him in a forth right way? or kinda a soft behind the scenes type of way? I ask all of this because how you approach him might make all the difference in the world....

oh you can get bloodwork online? are you kidding me? i had no idea you can do that. do you know where i can find out more info on this and how much it would cost? the sperm test alone is going to be about $180. I have told him in bits and pieces things that have been suggested on here. but, he isnt here right now, so havent had a chance to talk to him about everything that was said today yet. plan on doing so later though.

And are you one who directs him in a forth right way?

He basically trusts me and my judgement for most things, as I am much more educated than he is, being a nurse, etc. So, he is open minded and will listen to whatever I have to say, especially if its only going to be helpful for him.

He is always having me look up stuff on the computer for him. He has an AOL acct but just uses it for google searches and stuff. He really never gets on the computer. I am a computer nerd lol. He is not. He'd much rather be in front of the PS3

[SlimmerMe]

oh you can get bloodwork online? are you kidding me? i had no idea you can do that. do you know where i can find out more info on this and how much it would cost? the sperm test alone is going to be about $180. I have told him in bits and pieces things that have been suggested on here. but, he isnt here right now, so havent had a chance to talk to him about everything that was said today yet. plan on doing so later though.

And are you one who directs him in a forth right way?

He basically trusts me and my judgement for most things, as I am much more educated than he is, being a nurse, etc. So, he is open minded and will listen to whatever I have to say, especially if its only going to be helpful for him.

He is always having me look up stuff on the computer for him. He has an AOL acct but just uses it for google searches and stuff. He really never gets on the computer. I am a computer nerd lol. He is not. He'd much rather be in front of the PS3

Depends on the man as to how I direct them. Gotta feel them out to see what motivates them.

It sounds to me like your man is not motivated here whatsoever. Again, he needs to be more interested in his health than you are. And until doing so, I bet you are shooting blanks. Coming here to this site does not require a computer nerd. Sounds like he makes you the go-to gal for him by having you do all the work.

I bet if you got him to register he would feel a lot better about himself. Plus with men, he might have an issue he just does not feel comfortable discussing with you anyway and the guys could help him sort it out. All of this is very personal. Everyone reacts to these chemicals in different ways.

Is he skinny? Do you think he needs steroids?

[floridachick]

Depends on the man as to how I direct them. Gotta feel them out to see what motivates them.

It sounds to me like your man is not motivated here whatsoever. Again, he needs to be more interested in his health than you are. And until doing so, I bet you are shooting blanks. Coming here to this site does not require a computer nerd. Sounds like he makes you the go-to gal for him by having you do all the work.

I bet if you got him to register he would feel a lot better about himself. Plus with men, he might have an issue he just does not feel comfortable discussing with you anyway and the guys could help him sort it out. All of this is very personal. Everyone reacts to these chemicals in different ways.

Is he skinny? Do you think he needs steroids?

He is never going to be more interested in his health lol. what does that mean, until doing so, i bet you are shooting blanks? meaning he is? he doesnt MAKE me do things for him. He wanted me to look all this stuff up for him. He is not good with computers and its just easier for me. Plus, even if he gets an acct and posts something. he is going to have ME post it for HIM. he doesnt type near as quickly and im just way better at these things. if he ever wants to even send an email or anything he has ME do it. not a big deal for me. its not hard and i am a fast typer. like i said he is hardly ever on the computer anyway.

no he is not skinny. he used to be when we first met, 13 years ago. but isnt now. he weighs around 170 is 5'10". his lower body isnt that muscular. he doesnt even work out his lower body. only his upper body. doesnt do any ab work either. he says he wants to get his chest first and then will do abs. i try to tell him he should do it all, not one a a time, but who am I and what do i know lol? i worked out using the jillian michaels DVD 30 min workout and it kicked my butt. i tones up really well and is cardio and weights. but he doesnt have alot of time, he doesnt go to a gym. he works out at home with his own weight bench. most guys that are dedicated, avid into their body go to the gym or work out more often, at least i would think. my husband doesnt want to just work out all the time and never be able to do anything else. he enjoys way too many other things to just put working out as his ONLY thing to do with the time he has.

[SlimmerMe]

He is never going to be more interested in his health lol. what does that mean, until doing so, i bet you are shooting blanks? meaning he is? he doesnt MAKE me do things for him. He wanted me to look all this stuff up for him. He is not good with computers and its just easier for me. Plus, even if he gets an acct and posts something. he is going to have ME post it for HIM. he doesnt type near as quickly and im just way better at these things. if he ever wants to even send an email or anything he has ME do it. not a big deal for me. its not hard and i am a fast typer. like i said he is hardly ever on the computer anyway.

no he is not skinny. he used to be when we first met, 13 years ago. but isnt now. he weighs around 170 is 5'10". his lower body isnt that muscular. he doesnt even work out his lower body. only his upper body. doesnt do any ab work either. he says he wants to get his chest first and then will do abs. i try to tell him he should do it all, not one a a time, but who am I and what do i know lol? i worked out using the jillian michaels DVD 30 min workout and it kicked my butt. i tones up really well and is cardio and weights. but he doesnt have alot of time, he doesnt go to a gym. he works out at home with his own weight bench. most guys that are dedicated, avid into their body go to the gym or work out more often, at least i would think. my husband doesnt want to just work out all the time and never be able to do anything else. he enjoys way too many other things to just put working out as his ONLY thing to do with the time he has.

Could be interpreted several ways......either you are shooting blanks by not getting anywhere with him....or....

IF he does not even bother to work out? This plan of his is for naught. He will not hold his gains. Plus the sides that some with it? not worth it. He sounds down right unmotivated to me.

Can he type? at all?