Popping the question...

[dec11]

I couldn´t agree more.
Never understood why anyone would consider marrying someone if they are not gonna have kids. Roommates for life? What on earth do they do together after 5...10 years? Unless ofcourse you are lucky and find your "soulmate".
I actually rather have the kids first, then marry if she wants to. What if we can´t have kids?
Having kids is a huge investment for the future. Think of how much richer life becomes when we are 50-60-70-80 years, our kids finding partners and adding to the family, grandkids, graduations, Holidays filled with generations.
One of the saddest things I see is lonely old people.
My life is pretty perfect right now, so I don´t need to make any changes, but planning ahead is more important.

so kids are the only reason you'd be with someone you didnt want to be with? if you feel tht, keep that ring in your pocket lol

[BrownGirl]

so kids are the only reason you'd be with someone you didnt want to be with? if you feel tht, keep that ring in your pocket lol

^^^ Agree.