Quote Originally Posted by Sexy4mySweetheart View Post
Well i can’t speak for the man perspective, but girls face the same issue...
I don’t seem to even see guys since meeting Tiger almost 3years ago...literaly lol
(Once I was waiting for food at the bar to bring home to him, called him and told him. I was leaving with the food, crossed the street and someone said "hi baby" I jumped, Tiger was there waiting for me and I didn’t even see him. He had walked to come join me at the bar. I wasn’t expecting him and apparently my brain doesn’t acknowledge men as anything more than shadows lmao)
That doesn’t mean it will always be this way, I have been married before for 15years and I know how things and people change/get comfy/get bored/the chemicals in us change etc... So I think it comes to a declaration of deciding if you want to commit to a person or not.
If you declare commitment to yourself you won’t allow the possibility of others to be received and people pick up on that.
There will always be a more attractive person coming in our lives and chemical reactions in us to some people, some one that makes us feel super human ..But the reality is that all this settles down over time on some level.

It comes down to wanting that new car feeling regularly of the possibilities and unknown or that car you have customized specifically to you that you know everything about and can feel when something’s wrong or needed.

LDR are hard, maybe its not suitable to you?
Unfortunately very true. What is sad though, is when 2 people take a vow to be honest, committed, truthful, and to work through the hard times TOGETHER to only get divorced years down the road. I dont know about others, but personally I feel like society does not take marriage as seriously as it should be taken.