Have some controversial Gay questions

[Armykid93]

Don't know why I'm getting patronized now but alright.

[gixxerboy1]

if i get a boner when i look in the mirror. Am i just hot or gay or both

[slfmade]

if i get a boner when i look in the mirror. Am i just hot or gay or both

Yes......

[gixxerboy1]

damn i made my own gay environment

[slfmade]

damn i made my own gay environment

Congrats - It's takes a special man to do that...lol

[amcon]

So then what would be my environmental motivation?
Lets see what being gay gave me when i was young:
1) Fear
2) Confusion
3) Loneliness (i didn't know one gay person growing up)
4) Need for acceptance
5) Depression

Oh my god, looking back on it now i totally see your point. I never really listed all the benefits of being gay. Filer i want to thank you for showing me the light.

glad to have shed some light for you dsm

The saying is "pull your head out your @$$." Clearly from what you write you are the one confused. I will agree to disagree with you on this topic.

that is your right

"Ofcourse being gay is at least part environmental."

No it is not. Just because a guy goes to jail and ****s another guy in the @$$ doesn't make him a homosexual. It just makes him a guy that needs to put his dick into something warm and cum. When he leaves jail he will just go right back to having relations with women. A homosexual is a guy who loves another man. Its not just physical but emotional. That's what people don't understand.

if your a guy having sex w other men... your are gay


or if you are putting your head in a guys a$$ for some strange reason .... your prob gay

[amcon]

So what's the general consensus... Are people born gay; or is it a choice they make either consciously or subconsciously? (I have no opinion on this)

form your own op... read a valid medical study -

i believe what gay people tell me. They are born that way.

ok your gay... your are cuz i am telling you so

I understand you would never go there but just because you do a gay act does make you a homosexual. If someone put a gun to your mothers head and said if you suck my dick i wont kill her and you did would that make you gay? No.
This is the first sentence of the definition of Homosexual from wiki " Homosexuality is romantic or sexual attraction or behavior between members of the same sex or gender." Key work being romantic which means love. If you can love another man then in my eyes you are homosexual.

When people ask me when i knew i was gay/bi i ask them this question back "When did you know you were straight?" When i ask this question people look at me like a deer in headlights. They then shrug their shoulders and say i just kinda always knew. It was the same for me.

note to all: romance and love are two totally diff things

They are born that way. That doesn't mean some people might chose to sleep with men because they think its cool but the majority is born this way. I have said before on these forums there were times in my life where if i could have turned being gay off i would have. A gay life isn't an easy life. Even today i struggle with telling people at work in fear it might hurt my career. As you can see in my signature i am a realist. I know there are still plenty of @$$holes out there that would hold me back just because of my sexual preference.

first sleeping w men is not cool if you are a dude, second, you should never be held back cuz of your sexual orientation - sorry to hear that.

Didn't Lady Gaga say that

it must be true then...

If I get blown by a thai girl-boy does that really make me gay? I mean it has tits. Damn getting to the deep stuff now.

not real deep, yes your gay, or bi after the event - only if you think it was a man, if it was a boy it would also make you a pedifile... and from what you are asking you have a story to tell hu? lol

[amcon]

Don't know why I'm getting patronized now but alright.

because your from oregon

[JD250]

Has anyone ever heard of a gay midget?

[lovbyts]

Why does anyone try to figure out why? It's stupid, there is no singular answer, there is nothing to fix, there is no sense in wasting time figuring out why.

Simply it's because of Environment, genetics, choice, upbringing, religion, desire and personal attraction, companionship, same thing that makes a straight person straight. It's a mix of everything, one or more of the above or something completely different. Who cares. It is what it is

[JD250]

Dammit Lovbyts !!! I was working on an in depth study to prove my theory about the lack of gay midgets and chromosomes and other important shit and you just screwed it all up........sheeesh....

[DSM4Life]

Acom you commented on everything but my priest comment. Yes it was funny but using your own study then its 100%. I would love to hear you justify that one.

[jasc]

i believe what gay people tell me. They are born that way.

ok your gay... your are cuz i am telling you so

Noone else caught that? lol

So Amcon by your scientific reasoning, can we assume you were touched as a child?

[gixxerboy1]

Noone else caught that? lol

So Amcon by your scientific reasoning, can we assume you were touched as a child?

I caught it. So Amcon just came out of the closet. Congrats

[lovbyts]

Noone else caught that? lol

So Amcon by your scientific reasoning, can we assume you were touched as a child?

I was touched and I liked it.... LOL

Dammit Lovbyts !!! I was working on an in depth study to prove my theory about the lack of gay midgets and chromosomes and other important shit and you just screwed it all up........sheeesh....

Sorry about that, I did see your post and I waited for about an hour before posting to see where you or someone else was going with it. I was about to google Gay midgets for you but I figured they might frown on that at work. LOL

[DSM4Life]

I was touched and I liked it.... LOL

I always wanted to be touched by my math teacher. I thought she was hot.

"Mrs G i will do anything, ANYTHING but i can't go home with a D ...."

[lovbyts]

I always wanted to be touched by my math teacher. I thought she was hot.

"Mrs G i will do anything, ANYTHING but i can't go home with a D ...."

LOL, I had a couple, one for sure female teacher that I know wanted to when I was in grade school. The principals wife, nice looking 30 something music teacher that wanted to give me private lessons. LOL I just remember thinking why me? I sucked at music, didnt have any real interest but I also felt weird in a good way the way she kept touching my leg with her hand and sitting so close to me. Only if I was smart enough to say yes. Opportunity missed.
I had a couple baby sitters when I was a little younger who were a little more forward/aggressive. Cute teen girls. Only problem is I still cant remember all the details. DAMN memory....

[Times Roman]

Dammit Lovbyts !!! I was working on an in depth study to prove my theory about the lack of gay midgets and chromosomes and other important shit and you just screwed it all up........sheeesh....

I seen a "happy go lucky" midget once.... not sure if that means he was gay?

[DSM4Life]

LOL, I had a couple, one for sure female teacher that I know wanted to when I was in grade school. The principals wife, nice looking 30 something music teacher that wanted to give me private lessons. LOL I just remember thinking why me? I sucked at music, didnt have any real interest but I also felt weird in a good way the way she kept touching my leg with her hand and sitting so close to me. Only if I was smart enough to say yes. Opportunity missed.
I had a couple baby sitters when I was a little younger who were a little more forward/aggressive. Cute teen girls. Only problem is I still cant remember all the details. DAMN memory....

I was a hornball if she would have made a move i would have went for it 100%. I was too scared to say anything so it was you make the move or nothing helps. I wasted a lot of babies thinking about her.

[Scabtree]

I think the heart of all this can be summed up into one question: Albanian midget transvestites - are they born that way?

It's too bad Oprah went off the air; she'd get to the bottom of this.

[Shol'va]

You know i tried to find some rhyme or reason to explain why I am gay but it is what it is. I knew it way back before puberty. I just didn't understand it or what it was called. Once I reached puberty the rest was history. At an early age everyone, Ok Most experiment with others and theirselves, boys with thier boyhood buds, and girls with their girl friends. Most of them move on as in a phase. My phase never left. I liked it too much. I was never molested or any of the other stuff they try to label us with, or explain away their ideas of why we are why we are. Well here is a good reason for gays, population control. Yes maybe it's natures way of trying to limit our population. It's as good a reason as any. It's too bad there is such a stigma to sexuality at all.

[gixxerboy1]

shol'va do you want a reason as to why you are gay? I see you said to you tried to find a reason. If you had a solid answer would it effect you in anyway?

[Shol'va]

shol'va do you want a reason as to why you are gay? I see you said to you tried to find a reason. If you had a solid answer would it effect you in anyway?

Nope. That was many moons ago when I reached for those answers. I'm happy being a man's man.

[Shol'va]

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first sleeping w men is not cool if you are a dude

You are correct, sleeping with men in general...but sleeping with hot, sexy, hung muscle men is highly recommended...

[dooie]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=in9SiDtJLaU

[JD250]

^^^^^ that's funny stuff Dooie........."straight, it's the new gay"!

[DSM4Life]

Shit Girls Say to Gay Guys

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m31TOu27kzk

[JohnnyVegas]

I wish people would spend more of their time making their corner of the planet a great place and less time worrying about others.

I started hanging out at gay bars and clubs when I was 18 and never felt strange. I have gay friends and I don't care. I don't mean "not supportive if needed" when I say "don't care." I mean I don't think about it. It isn't a "thing". Same thing happens to me about race most of the time. Every time someone on the radio says, "you hate Obama because he is black" I think to myself, "Obama's black? Damn, I totally forgot that" and it makes me realize the person pointing it out is more racist than me because they are bringing up race when I normally don't think of it at all.

I take care of the people near me, and have no reason to hate anyone. Well, other than whoever keyed one of our cars over the weekend. I hope that person dies in a lake of fire.

[DSM4Life]

I wish people would spend more of their time making their corner of the planet a great place and less time worrying about others.

I started hanging out at gay bars and clubs when I was 18 and never felt strange. I have gay friends and I don't care. I don't mean "not supportive if needed" when I say "don't care." I mean I don't think about it. It isn't a "thing". Same thing happens to me about race most of the time. Every time someone on the radio says, "you hate Obama because he is black" I think to myself, "Obama's black? Damn, I totally forgot that" and it makes me realize the person pointing it out is more racist than me because they are bringing up race when I normally don't think of it at all.

I take care of the people near me, and have no reason to hate anyone. Well, other than whoever keyed one of our cars over the weekend. I hope that person dies in a lake of fire.

I need some support on a few deep issues. You in?

[lovbyts]

I wish people would spend more of their time making their corner of the planet a great place and less time worrying about others.

I started hanging out at gay bars and clubs when I was 18 and never felt strange. I have gay friends and I don't care. I don't mean "not supportive if needed" when I say "don't care." I mean I don't think about it. It isn't a "thing". Same thing happens to me about race most of the time. Every time someone on the radio says, "you hate Obama because he is black" I think to myself, "Obama's black? Damn, I totally forgot that" and it makes me realize the person pointing it out is more racist than me because they are bringing up race when I normally don't think of it at all.

I take care of the people near me, and have no reason to hate anyone. Well, other than whoever keyed one of our cars over the weekend. I hope that person dies in a lake of fire.

There you go, so simple. That would solve SO many problems in the world right there....