Taking a girl I've never met before on a dinner date, very nervous...

[Charlie6]

I'm gonna have a glass before I leave the house forsure lol. that sholud help. I should stay away from the xanax tho, ya think? I don't wanna fall asleep on her. And yea I just have to remember to try to make her laugh. I think this girl and I will flow well together

[gixxerboy1]

I'm gonna have a glass before I leave the house forsure lol. that sholud help. I should stay away from the xanax tho, ya think? I don't wanna fall asleep on her. And yea I just have to remember to try to make her laugh. I think this girl and I will flow well together

dont mix xanax and drinking

[alexISthrowed]

dont mix xanax and drinking

Depends on what type of girl she is Xanax and alcohol will lead to bad decisions and no recollection of what you did on your date whatsoever.

[gixxerboy1]

Depends on what type of girl she is Xanax and alcohol will lead to bad decisions and no recollection of what you did on your date whatsoever.

i'd be asleep and not be able to seal the deal. All they do to me is make me tired

[alexISthrowed]

i'd be asleep and not be able to seal the deal. All they do to me is make me tired

No way your getting a boner with that combo.

[DanB]

No way your getting a boner with that combo.

Only thing its ever given me has been a charge sheet. . . . . .

[SexySweetheart]

HOW EXCITING!

Im sure you will be fine

If your feeling nervious...just ask her questions about herself that are open ended (every one lovse to blabber on about themselves lol) and of cource there is always complements and flattery ~ she will feel so good about herself from your flattering words she wont even notice you being nervous

I hope you have a GREAT NIGHT!!

[Charlie6]

HOW EXCITING!

Im sure you will be fine

If your feeling nervious...just ask her questions about herself that are open ended (every one lovse to blabber on about themselves lol) and of cource there is always complements and flattery ~ she will feel so good about herself from your flattering words she wont even notice you being nervous

I hope you have a GREAT NIGHT!!

Thank you SO much I will indeed utilize your advice. We've texted so much atfirst it feels like there'll be nothing to talk about. but I still have to ask her about her family and why she chose her degree in school and all that jazz. I'll let ya know how it goes?

[SexySweetheart]

...fyi, keep the texting to a min. people in general are drawn too, curious and feel special when they finally get or have the attention of someone thats not allways available.

I would suggest a conversation about nothing lol seems silly but when girls are dating they all seem to be the same date after a while...same topics, same lines, same food and drinks...its mundaine.

say ramdom stuff ...I told Tigershark I would be the girl wearing the Mr T gold chains, blasting boy goerge from my red Thunderbird ....lol he said he was the bald guy... I told him that was awsome cuz Im bald too and we could spot each other easy! lol

[SexySweetheart]

NNNNOOOOOO kisssss lol dont do it! ...ou want to leave her thinking.. she will have this on her mind...
so he doesnt just kiss EVERY girl he is into
is he into me?
i realy was hoping he would kiss me
i wounder if he will kiss me on the next date?
will he ask me for another date?
...all good stuff .

IF you like her ... go in slow for a FULL BODY hug, sounds lame but a tight long hug with your whole body in her space is golden esp if you have the moochizmo to lightly touch her knee or shoulder or elbo during the night before hand

and IF your into her plz plz plz for the love of gawd do not wait to call her after the date ...no text, call her. just say how you had a good time or whatever and you like her company blah blah blah and have to go to bed now but wanted to wish her good night (keep it VERY short)

[SexySweetheart]

be there waiting for her is a classy move ( order a soda or water) dont ask her out again during the date... she may feel obligated to sy yes even if in side shes secretly chanting for the waiter to hurry up so she can go home lol

[SexySweetheart]

nix the text that you there...she allready knows your gonna be there and she be feeling rushed getting ready.
just chill and enoy the place till she shows...parous the menue, talk to staff maybe ask for a flower for your table ...

[SexySweetheart]

gixx... im sure we do baaahahaha ... but realy and truely...if she likes you for you ~ no matter what you do she will prob have fun and want to see you again <3
Im just saying from a ladys point what I have seen/ been threw.. these are the golden nuggets combined that we all like/ want/ wish we had from a first date and after all, the 1st date does set the tone for tolerance of future idiocraties lmao

why not set your self apart from all the other duds.. yes duds, that have taken her out, leave a higher standard for any followers to be compaired against (if there is ever anymore) ...

[Charlie6]

good to see some ladies in this thread. Help me out ladies =)