Who else thinks they can read body language

[GirlyGymRat]

So why do you want to single me out? =)

: ))))) cuz I have had several not so nice experiences with creepy stalkers.....

[Times Roman]

: ))))) cuz I have had several not so nice experiences with creepy stalkers.....

just kidding girlie G

I've had girl "friends" (not GF) that have asked me to help them deal with ex's that don't know how to go away after a break up. I've literally had to threaten physical harm to get the creeps to get the hint.

[GirlyGymRat]

just kidding girlie G

I've had girl "friends" (not GF) that have asked me to help them deal with ex's that don't know how to go away after a break up. I've literally had to threaten physical harm to get the creeps to get the hint.

i mean really creepy!
one guy was waiting for me when I came home from work. first sitting in the car...and I went to the police and they did go ask the guy why he was parked there. then he came on foot and then he peeped in my window. police couldnt do a thing since I couldn't identify in line up and he hadn't really "hurt" me.

made a wrong turn in a city. dozen or so guys started towards my car when i approached the intersection and stop sign. i jumped on gas cuz I really thought I was gonna be repeatedly hurt and left for dead.

had a van follow me for about mile or so when I was running outside. he looped around several times and lastly block my path at the cross walk. i was wishing I had a cell phone, pepper spray, knife/gun, big nasty dog with me...

most recently, had a man approach me in a parking lot. thankfully two other men showed up just in the nick of time!

These happened over period of years as I move about too and fro.... but really, more recently I feel like target practice..

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i mean really creepy!
one guy was waiting for me when I came home from work. first sitting in the car...and I went to the police and they did go ask the guy why he was parked there. then he came on foot and then he peeped in my window. police couldnt do a thing since I couldn't identify in line up and he hadn't really "hurt" me.

made a wrong turn in a city. dozen or so guys started towards my car when i approached the intersection and stop sign. i jumped on gas cuz I really thought I was gonna be repeatedly hurt and left for dead.

had a van follow me for about mile or so when I was running outside. he looped around several times and lastly block my path at the cross walk. i was wishing I had a cell phone, pepper spray, knife/gun, big nasty dog with me...

most recently, had a man approach me in a parking lot. thankfully two other men showed up just in the nick of time!

These happened over period of years as I move about too and fro.... but really, more recently I feel like target practice..

having said all that, have you figured out yet which one was me? =)
(just kidding, don't bbeat me up)

yeah, you gals have it tough in this area.

the last time i had to "help out" was a lady at work. she was going to leave, but her ex was in the parking lot. she came back in and asked if i could tell him to go away. so I went out there, and told him to take off. he referred to her as his GF (present tense). I told him she broke up with him over a month ago.... he said she was confused and it was a simple misunderstanding???? I hate getting in the middle of these things, and i resented him for putting me in the middle. He was beginning to piss me off, and i called him an assshole, and if i ever saw him around here again he'd regret it. he split, and she ended up leaving about 20 mintues later.

but here's one aspect of the probblem. the average guy probably outweights the average lady by at least 50lbs, maybe more. Plus considerably stronger. So when push comes to shove, it's almost always the lady that comes up bruised and bloody. So I am protective of women in general. Call me sexist, but I think most women appreciate it when they get in a jam.

[GirlyGymRat]

the average guy probably outweights the average lady by at least 50lbs, maybe more. Plus considerably stronger. So when push comes to shove, it's almost always the lady that comes up bruised and bloody. So I am protective of women in general. Call me sexist, but I think most women appreciate it when they get in a jam.

Gosh I would hope so

I call it Mr Right and Mr Left

I call it honorable


I have taken some classes (not self defense) but "ground" defense if u get my "hint". There are techniques but unfortunately proximity and strenght out weight what I can offer. For me, I vow to give it my best shot of not being moved from the original location and will inflict pain on anyone trying to hurt me, but only if i can hurt them enough to get to safe haven. my instructors realized that I was a little stronger then most, physically and mentally. people just need to be alert at all times and thankful when angels arrive

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Gosh I would hope so

I call it Mr Right and Mr Left

I call it honorable


I have taken some classes (not self defense) but "ground" defense if u get my "hint". There are techniques but unfortunately proximity and strenght out weight what I can offer. For me, I vow to give it my best shot of not being moved from the original location and will inflict pain on anyone trying to hurt me, but only if i can hurt them enough to get to safe haven. my instructors realized that I was a little stronger then most, physically and mentally. people just need to be alert at all times and thankful when angels arrive

and having some pepper spray handy isn't a bbad idea either