PS - don't take this to mean you should stop trying to get big; i'm fighting for every lb. of muscle, every single day. No matter what, we'll still look better than 95% of people on the planet.
My point was more geared towards your outlook (which you picked up on) - don't get down on yourself over things you can't change. I wish I had big broad shoulders and a wide back... but I don't. What I CAN do is work my ass off to make sure what I have looks as good as it possibly can.![]()