what do the male members think of this marrige report? true or false

[Times Roman]

Sometimes I honestly feel ashamed to be a dude, and after reading this article this feeling was further reinforced. I would like to say this article is completely blown out of proportion but the sad reality is I would say it's pretty spot on. A ton of my buddies are pretty open with me about cheating on their girls. Some go as far as bragging about it.

To me cheating on your significant other is one of the lowest things a man can do. I think after you have the "relationship talk" and you both agree you are committed to each other there is absolutely no excuse for doing anything with another woman.I see it almost as a verbal contract, and if we consider an old saying "your only as good as your word" if you cheat your good for nothing. If a guy does I essentially see them as a weak willed spineless piece of s***.

I have about as much respect for guys that cheat on their girls as I do for crack addicts. They just glide through life without any morals to speak of and allow their lack of willpower to determine their actions. This results in them over-indulging on life without a shred of responsibility or accountability for their actions.

Sorry you have to put up with our dumbasses sexy4mysweetheart.

many are very self orientated and it's all about "ME".

the thing that really makes me scratch my head is the idea that a man can cheat when his woman is pregnant. She is ready to bear his child they made together. she is extremely uncomfortable, miserable more like it. So some blokes see this as a green light to go out and fvck around?

It just goes to show there are low lifes everywhere.

[thex95]

many are very self orientated and it's all about "ME".

the thing that really makes me scratch my head is the idea that a man can cheat when his woman is pregnant. She is ready to bear his child they made together. she is extremely uncomfortable, miserable more like it. So some blokes see this as a green light to go out and fvck around?

It just goes to show there are low lifes everywhere.

ya guys that pull that shit are complete scum. I plan on cutting back on a lot of things I usually do eventually get my future wife pregnant. Mostly cut out almost all alchohol, I figure if she cant do it why should I be able to, shes carrying OUR child. Thats pretty extreme and I dont expect most guys to do that but thats just a personal ideology of mine.

[JohnnyVegas]

I did not read the whole thing because its obviously bias towards men bashing!!! BS In my experiences and my friends experiences its the Women who cheat more.

I didn't think it was man bashing. It isn't about who cheats more, it is just about why men cheat.

it does take work, but with the right person, it's not that difficult..

Agreed. Compatibility is key.

i think you might want to check the divorce statistics spy lol

I know you didn't reply to me, but I am the divorce statistics. Half my marriages have ended in divorce. Heh. I know what spy said is right because I picked a better mate the second time and it is insanely easier to make it work. I think a lot of us focus on hotness, or just insist on making it work with whoever we are with rather than putting in the work to find someone really suitable. Most of us are trying to force it.

Two points I completely agree with. I want my woman to orgasm and people who are having sex don't get divorced.

I will say that plenty of people having sex get divorced. Oftentimes the one cheating is sleeping with his/her spouse and someone else.