if you have a girlfriend you better educate her now on the final 14 weeks before a show and how it will pretty much suck to know you during that time , you wont be able to go out and teh strict lifestyle to follow. Procard is no joke. especially at the weight category you wanna be at. with your build weigh in for the top end of light heavy weight work on symmetry and get your name known and then at nationals win 1st prove your body is better then the HW 1st place and take his Pro card from him. ALot of jacked guys in HW and SHW, its popularity find a local judge around you who BB and pay him to teach you poses , social media and all that. You have to be known