Trying to get out of the 'FriendZone'

[Honkey_Kong]

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HEY!!! no moving in on MY action. Your stealing my ideas now. I must be a bad influence to the group. lol

Chill out, she's not Asian. But yeah, thanks to you, we're all going to end up having to notify the neighbours every time we try to move in to a new neighbourhood.

[RaginCajun]

If she is smart and being home schooled she might be smarter than average.

OK you need to tune in to Lykus 101. A woman/girl will decide in the first 5 minutes of knowing you if she is going to sleep with you or if you are going to be only a friend. If you are in the friend zone forget it. 99% chance that's all you will ever be so more on if you are looking for more. She may DATE you but that only mean you will pay for everything and she wont be putting out. You may get hugs and a kiss on the cheek but dont expect more.
http://www.leykis101.com/

this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[ramacher]

She is in Europe in some small town visiting family with her mother. And I do have a movie night scheduled Coming up FYI.

[ramacher]

Last one.

[Honkey_Kong]

She is in Europe in some small town visiting family with her mother. And I do have a movie night scheduled Coming up FYI.

First rule about women is they lie about things all the time. There is some truth to her visiting family, but she's probably out banging locals too. I'm not saying this to put you in a downer or anything either. I'm just meaning you should still be out looking for a hole to hit.

[AdrenalineJunkie]

The friend zone. Those words make me cringe, it's never a good situation. If you're in it, the longer you wait the harder it gets to get out. My girl has so many guy friends I'll admit its kind of obnoxious. She says they are like brothers and I'm like "I can guarantee you they don't see you as a sister!" She refused to believe it until her "best friend" professed his love to her over the weekend. It's always just a matter of time. It's human nature to be attracted to the opposite sex! When are girls going to realize their guy friends (unless gay) have much more on their mind than just friends... obviously there is exceptions but the guys that go out of their way for the girl, are always calling, and overly caring and protective are all guilty.

But seriously, if she is sending you pics she has to have other things on her mind. Your phone isn't facebook. She shared that with you alone. Either there's more there or shes a flirt starving for attention which is trouble. I'd just try and win her over, but don't back her into a corner. Goodluck bro

[jasc]

Chill out, she's not Asian. But yeah, thanks to you, we're all going to end up having to notify the neighbours every time we try to move in to a new neighbourhood.

hahahahaha classic..

[gearbox]

If she is smart and being home schooled she might be smarter than average.

OK you need to tune in to Lykus 101. A woman/girl will decide in the first 5 minutes of knowing you if she is going to sleep with you or if you are going to be only a friend. If you are in the friend zone forget it. 99% chance that's all you will ever be so more on if you are looking for more. She may DATE you but that only mean you will pay for everything and she wont be putting out. You may get hugs and a kiss on the cheek but dont expect more.
http://www.leykis101.com/

This x10
And sorry your not getting any. The Texting is cause she wants attention and is bored I imagine

[GetItHot]

So glad to see a 101 reference. You need to wake the **** up and listen to it. www.blowmeuptom.com
She sounds like an attention whore and you are giving her what she wants. You give her the attention while these animals are out actually using their balls.

[RaginCajun]

Last one.

i take it she is the chick in your avi?

[Honkey_Kong]

So glad to see a 101 reference. You need to wake the **** up and listen to it. www.blowmeuptom.com
She sounds like an attention whore and you are giving her what she wants. You give her the attention while these animals are out actually using their balls.

You know every post of yours I read, I read in the voice of Randy Savage.

[Zodiac82]

u should tell her next time....instead of bringing a friend yall should bring each other....

[Zodiac82]

Last one.

no one commented on that cool toothbrush in the background ; p

[Shsm]

Man, these guys are twice your age and married, don't go off of their advice!

Anyways, if you want her attention then ignore her. Don't answer any of her calls, messages, texts, anything. It will drive her nuts. If she chooses in this time to not make an effort for your attention, then leave her, you won't get anywhere with her and will be wasting your time. However if she texts, calls, and messages you multiple times, in any significant effort to get your attention then you're game.

What it comes down to after that is making them want you. Don't call her beautiful and sexy and shit when you're trying to get in her panties. Think about the countless other losers making an attempt to have sex with her by complimenting her. Girls aren't attracted to sweet guy antics at first glance, they're attracted to power. Make her think you barely have any time in the day to do anything with her, where you're always busy either working or at the gym. Make her realize there are numerous other attractive girls out there at your disposal.

[Zodiac82]

Man, these guys are twice your age and married, don't go off of their advice!

Anyways, if you want her attention then ignore her. Don't answer any of her calls, messages, texts, anything. It will drive her nuts. If she chooses in this time to not make an effort for your attention, then leave her, you won't get anywhere with her and will be wasting your time. However if she texts, calls, and messages you multiple times, in any significant effort to get your attention then you're game.

What it comes down to after that is making them want you. Don't call her beautiful and sexy and shit when you're trying to get in her panties. Think about the countless other losers making an attempt to have add with her by complimenting her. Girls aren't attracted to sweet guy antics at first, they're attracted to power. Make her think you barely have any time in the day to do anything, where you're always busy either working or at the gym. Make her realize there are numerous other attractive girls out there at your disposal.

actually not a bad idea at all....touche

[Bigshotvictoria]

Man, these guys are twice your age and married, don't go off of their advice!

Anyways, if you want her attention then ignore her. Don't answer any of her calls, messages, texts, anything. It will drive her nuts. If she chooses in this time to not make an effort for your attention, then leave her, you won't get anywhere with her and will be wasting your time. However if she texts, calls, and messages you multiple times, in any significant effort to get your attention then you're game.

What it comes down to after that is making them want you. Don't call her beautiful and sexy and shit when you're trying to get in her panties. Think about the countless other losers making an attempt to have sex with her by complimenting her. Girls aren't attracted to sweet guy antics at first glance, they're attracted to power. Make her think you barely have any time in the day to do anything with her, where you're always busy either working or at the gym. Make her realize there are numerous other attractive girls out there at your disposal.

I've used this method, and it's worked. I've also gotten laid trying to convince a girl I had a tiny penis. I tried to convince her so hard she had to see for herself. The point is: there is no sure fire way to get laid. I don't know if anyone else has thought of it, but have you considered just telling her you're into her? If you need to play games to get her, do you really want to be with her? Women that play games are worth about 15 minutes of my time, that includes the time it takes for me to put my clothes back on. Anyways, just my .2

[DCI]

BTW FYI in the EU it's 16.

Not in every country. Most are different ages over here it's 17 I think.

[alexISthrowed]

The best way to get out of the friend zone is to not be in the friend zone in the first place.

[austinite]

I'm Chris Hansen with Dateline NBC....

[JD250]

Ramacher!!!!?????? WTF????? Haven't we had this discussion before? You just don't listen..... now get over to her house grab two big handfuls of sweater muffins and rub your dick against her......chicks love it.....you'll be gettin laid every damn day!!

[cherrydrpepper]

I'm Chris Hansen with Dateline NBC....

hahahahahhhahaha when her age came into question this was the first thing I thought of

[ShredMN]

Man, so many good laughs to be had in this post.. Haha. I'd take Shsm's advice and straight up ignore her, don't act like you give two shits about her. From there it should be pretty easy seeing if she actually wants into your pants or is just an attention whore.

[ShredMN]

One more thing. If you're not a shredded sck knt, get on that, take off your shirt, then watch her panties drop.

[Honkey_Kong]

I've used this method, and it's worked. I've also gotten laid trying to convince a girl I had a tiny penis. I tried to convince her so hard she had to see for herself. The point is: there is no sure fire way to get laid. I don't know if anyone else has thought of it, but have you considered just telling her you're into her? If you need to play games to get her, do you really want to be with her? Women that play games are worth about 15 minutes of my time, that includes the time it takes for me to put my clothes back on. Anyways, just my .2

Isn't that the whole point of dating?

[ramacher]

Hey thanks for the tips guys!

[ReX357]

Ignore her x 3

[Bigshotvictoria]

Invite her over

Wear nothing but a whipped cream bikini

[ramacher]

Invite her over

Wear nothing but a whipped cream bikini

Not sure about this one! Lol

[austinite]

Hey Ram. I'm just curious, has she sent you anymore pics? If so, my advice would be that you post them. (But not if Chris Hansen is there with you... ) kidding!

[cherrydrpepper]

Maybe you can hire a cartographer to draw you a map out of the friend zone or maybe you can be in the next Kenny Loggins video for Highway to the Friend zone

[cherrydrpepper]

[lovbyts]

Invite her over

Wear nothing but a whipped cream bikini

Hmmm now where did you get an ideal like that?

[Gaspari1255]

OP - what the hell is wrong with you?

You decide to make your avi of some girl that your friends with, but have high hopes of moving further with her? Then, you post pictures she sent of herself to you on an open BBing forum? I hope you realize that if ANY of those pictures are on her facebook, twitter, or any other jerk off site, that she can copy and paste them into Google Images, and THIS THREAD WILL COME UP.

Use your head man.....

[Gaspari1255]

Man, these guys are twice your age and married, don't go off of their advice!

Anyways, if you want her attention then ignore her. Don't answer any of her calls, messages, texts, anything. It will drive her nuts. If she chooses in this time to not make an effort for your attention, then leave her, you won't get anywhere with her and will be wasting your time. However if she texts, calls, and messages you multiple times, in any significant effort to get your attention then you're game.

What it comes down to after that is making them want you. Don't call her beautiful and sexy and shit when you're trying to get in her panties. Think about the countless other losers making an attempt to have sex with her by complimenting her. Girls aren't attracted to sweet guy antics at first glance, they're attracted to power. Make her think you barely have any time in the day to do anything with her, where you're always busy either working or at the gym. Make her realize there are numerous other attractive girls out there at your disposal.

Co signed..

[Brohim]

WHat does she say when you make a hint that you want to date her?

[JohnnyVegas]

Sometimes it takes patience...and luck.

Tell her directly that you find her attractive (if you haven't already) since the easiest way to be stuck in the friend zone is to not make a move.

I wouldn't do all of the tactics like being a dick. You will only get girls that are attracted to dicks. You will not stay together. If you want a long relationship, it has to be based on respect and trust from day one. Tricks are for getting laid. Communication and compatibility are for relationships.

[DSM4Life]

Next time she sends you a picture reply with a picture of your junk. That should get you out the friend zone.

[Tron3219]

Next time she sends you a picture reply with a picture of your junk. That should get you out the friend zone.

^^^this...yes

[JohnnyVegas]

Next time she sends you a picture reply with a picture of your junk. That should get you out the friend zone.

Who knows where you will land...but it sure won't be the friend zone!

[Flagg]

Sometimes it takes patience...and luck.

Tell her directly that you find her attractive (if you haven't already) since the easiest way to be stuck in the friend zone is to not make a move.

I wouldn't do all of the tactics like being a dick. You will only get girls that are attracted to dicks. You will not stay together. If you want a long relationship, it has to be based on respect and trust from day one. Tricks are for getting laid. Communication and compatibility are for relationships.

Sage advice, I see a lot of negativity in this thread and I think the reason is that someone looking like this is giving the OP attention, and not them!

Ram, how are you with her? I guess people are different based on personality traits, but I find a bit of playful teasing works. I hate the fact that you have to play "games", but most girls under 25 are just that, girls, and quite a handful.

I agree that perhaps for a couple of days, dont make yourself available. It will be a good way to see how much she appreciates being with/around you.