I've been married 34 yrs. It has been f**kin rough but we're still together. I've been taken out of the house and sent to different places, not just jail, huh...crazy me for real, but as long as no one gets hurt physically. I can tell you, you never want cross that bridge. I have to be very careful with the sides that f*cks with my temper.I'm doing good with that right now but have been way, way out there. So sorry Stpete. don't know ya yet but don't make any quick judgements.It usually is better if it all can be worked out without a split if you love one another. Nothing like a life long lover ..crazy mike