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    Quote Originally Posted by MuscleInk View Post
    I got involved with a girl who was engaged to be married when I was a lot younger. She used to call me when her fiancé left her house and we would spend hours fooling around and hitting it in the sack. She had never slept with him because he was very religious and believed sex should be performed between married people (how many guys like THAT are even still around right????).

    Anyway, this went on for about 4 months before she finally told her fiancé. He left her (obviously) and I continued to see the girl for another 2 months before we ended things.

    Even though she was just as responsible for the things we did as was I, I still felt bad that I contributed to the collapse in her relationship. Perhaps if it wasn't me it would have been another guy she slept with, but I still felt bad for my role.


    That is a situation I never want to be in and have thought about it and made the right choice, 2x.
    I have an ex GF ( my 1st GF/love) who after we stopped dating after 2 1/2 years we remained friends. She got married about 6 years later. We still remained friends and I tried to also be friends with her husband. At one point in their relationship they were having some bad problems and he told her I was a concern to him and it bothered him we were friends. As soon as she told me it was obvious we needed to stop talking or doing anything together in any way. I did not want to be in any way responsible for a failed marriage and luckily I was not and they are still together.

    Another ex GF after she got married was not very happy in her relationship although her husband was making $$$$. I think he cleared over 10m that year, 2000? She kept inviting me over to see their new house and her new car and finally I accepted but brought my daughter sort of as a safe guard knowing something may be up. I was right and although she was trying to persuade me to stay the night I left with nothing happening. Eventually their marriage failed but I can take pride in knowing I had nothing to do with it.

    I'm far from perfect and many would not think I'm very moral due to my Asian post but even I have limits. lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by lovbyts View Post
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    That is a situation I never want to be in and have thought about it and made the right choice, 2x.
    I have an ex GF ( my 1st GF/love) who after we stopped dating after 2 1/2 years we remained friends. She got married about 6 years later. We still remained friends and I tried to also be friends with her husband. At one point in their relationship they were having some bad problems and he told her I was a concern to him and it bothered him we were friends. As soon as she told me it was obvious we needed to stop talking or doing anything together in any way. I did not want to be in any way responsible for a failed marriage and luckily I was not and they are still together.

    Another ex GF after she got married was not very happy in her relationship although her husband was making $$$$. I think he cleared over 10m that year, 2000? She kept inviting me over to see their new house and her new car and finally I accepted but brought my daughter sort of as a safe guard knowing something may be up. I was right and although she was trying to persuade me to stay the night I left with nothing happening. Eventually their marriage failed but I can take pride in knowing I had nothing to do with it.

    I'm far from perfect and many would not think I'm very moral due to my Asian post but even I have limits. lol
    Not a single human being I have ever met can claim 100% moral perfection! It is about limits and decisions that can hurt and effect others!

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    Quote Originally Posted by lovbyts

    That is a situation I never want to be in and have thought about it and made the right choice, 2x.
    I have an ex GF ( my 1st GF/love) who after we stopped dating after 2 1/2 years we remained friends. She got married about 6 years later. We still remained friends and I tried to also be friends with her husband. At one point in their relationship they were having some bad problems and he told her I was a concern to him and it bothered him we were friends. As soon as she told me it was obvious we needed to stop talking or doing anything together in any way. I did not want to be in any way responsible for a failed marriage and luckily I was not and they are still together.

    Another ex GF after she got married was not very happy in her relationship although her husband was making $$$$. I think he cleared over 10m that year, 2000? She kept inviting me over to see their new house and her new car and finally I accepted but brought my daughter sort of as a safe guard knowing something may be up. I was right and although she was trying to persuade me to stay the night I left with nothing happening. Eventually their marriage failed but I can take pride in knowing I had nothing to do with it.

    I'm far from perfect and many would not think I'm very moral due to my Asian post but even I have limits. lol
    I often wonder if I'd do things any differently. Regrettably I probably wouldn't. I was 17 and the prospect of sex without commitment was alluring.

    The person who suffered the most was the fiancé. He was a nice guy from what little I knew of him and I know I wouldn't want to be the one in his shoes.

    I'm in love with my wife. I'd be absolutely devastated if I caught her screwing around.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MuscleInk View Post
    I often wonder if I'd do things any differently. Regrettably I probably wouldn't. I was 17 and the prospect of sex without commitment was alluring.

    The person who suffered the most was the fiancé. He was a nice guy from what little I knew of him and I know I wouldn't want to be the one in his shoes.

    I'm in love with my wife. I'd be absolutely devastated if I caught her screwing around.
    Ummmm...what time are you coming home...i mean getting home? No reason..just curious. By the way, you are out of poptarts

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lunk1

    Ummmm...what time are you coming home...i mean getting home? No reason..just curious. By the way, you are out of poptarts
    Did you actually think the 5 real time security cameras in the house were for security?

    HAW can't take a crap without me knowing.

    .....and put my Oreos back you bastage!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by MuscleInk View Post
    Did you actually think the 5 real time security cameras in the house were for security?

    HAW can't take a crap without me knowing.

    .....and put my Oreos back you bastage!!!!
    You have 5 cameras at your house? WTF??
    Didnt you know the 8 camera set up is only $399 at costco and the Panasonic BL-C1A work great for inside and are only like $50 each. I have 3 of them inside + the 8 outside.

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